When Blunt Communication Is Needed With A Narcissist

When we do this we can expect the rude person to triangulate with others in secret about how rude we were, even though we were not. It has been my experience that if we do this we need to remove from our lives those who get angry with us over the gossip of the rude person. If someone does not see what that rude person is like and willing to judge us based on gossip then they too are not going to be good friends. 

We live in a culture that defends rude people and attacks the ones who say they are rude, its irrational, my advice is to ignore the ones who defend evil.