"Narcissists get rewarded for their bad behavior because people are afraid to call them out. They don't care who they hurt as long as they win the argument."
DoctorRamani
Those who love their self elevation don't care about how they harm others, they only care that they win over others.
Kind hearted people will give into the narcissist just to get away from them. Since kind reasonable people are not about winning they give in to the narcissist to stop the argument, but sadly this is enabling them.
What is the solution; let them have their win knowing its not a win for them at all, its just further and deeper sin that dominates them. They have no control over their perverted need to win, they are in bondage. Sadly too they have few friends because they care more about someone respecting and fearing them than they do about being loved.
This was the same mentality of the devil. He had the love of God and every wonderful things anyone would want. He was beautiful, had power and the leader of all the angels and yet he wanted power over God and others.
Revelation 12:7-12
Satan Thrown Out of Heaven
7 And war broke out in heaven: Michael and his angels fought with the dragon; and the dragon and his angels fought,
8 but they did not prevail, nor was a place found for them in heaven any longer.
9 So the great dragon was cast out, that serpent of old, called the Devil and Satan, who deceives the whole world; he was cast to the earth, and his angels were cast out with him."
Notice too that the devil was not satisfied to be the smartest, the most beautiful and the most powerful over all the angels, he had to have the top position.
This is what we see in narcissists! They are never satisfied with what God gave them they must be over everyone else.
We know the mentality of the narcissist comes right from the play book of the devil himself.
In these last days we can expect to see more of these monstrous people because we are living in the times much like the times of Noah. The Lord sent the flood to destroy the whole world because of the wickedness and only eight people were saved.
This time more than eight people will be saved but most of the population of the world will reject Christ while the born again believer becomes rare compared to the world population.
Matthew 7:13-14 "13 Enter through the narrow gate. For wide is the gate and broad is the way that leads to destruction, and many enter through it. 14 But small is the gate and narrow the way that leads to life, and only a few find it.…"
These words give us comfort and joy because this is not our home, we are going there soon to be with our Lord. In the mean time Christ lives in us, then we will see Him. Now we walk by faith, then we will have sight. Hallelujah!!!
The reward for the narcissist will be hell, but the born again believer will go to heaven.
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