Unless we are ashamed of our wrong attitudes and actions,
even confessing them openly, we will not grow. Only those who are embarrassed
enough to admit their mistakes and sins, will take a step forward in
progressing toward holiness.
James 5:16 "Therefore, confess your sins to one
another, and pray for one another so that you may be healed. The effective
prayer of a righteous man can accomplish much."
If we refuse to confess, not only will we not grow, any
prayers we utter will be ignored by God.
James 4:3
"3 You ask and do not receive, because you ask with
wrong motives, so that you may spend it on your pleasures."
James 1:5-7
New American Standard Bible (NASB)
5 But if any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who
gives to all generously and [a]without reproach, and it will be given to him. 6
But he must ask in faith without any doubting, for the one who doubts is like
the surf of the sea, driven and tossed by the wind. 7 For that man ought not to
expect that he will receive anything from the Lord,
1 John 5:14-15
"14 This is the confidence which we have [a]before Him,
that, if we ask anything according to His will, He hears us. 15 And if we know
that He hears us in whatever we ask, we know that we have the requests which we
have asked from Him."
1 Peter 3:7
"7 You husbands in the same way, live with your wives
in an understanding way, as with someone weaker, since she is a woman; and show
her honor as a fellow heir of the grace of life, so that your prayers will not
be hindered."
Psalm 66:18
"18 If I regard wickedness in my heart, The Lord will
not hear;"
If we want the Lord to hear us, we must desire His will His
Way! We must care whether or not we are pleasing Him. To pray asking for our desires
without concern for His Will, angers Him.
Romans 1:18
"18 For the wrath of God is revealed from heaven
against all ungodliness and unrighteousness of men who suppress the truth in
unrighteousness,"
Do we want our prayers to be heard? If the answer is yes,
then it is best to ask God to show us His Will, obey what He tells us through
His Word.