When we accept one another with all our warts and personality flaws, then is when we can truly love.
Those who accept and even embrace the differences in the genders as enhancing one another are those with good marriages.
God made the genders different for a reason, they are complimentary to one another as long as neither spouse considers their gender better than the other.
We can even tease one another about our differences, enjoying them, as colorfully adding to our life experience.
When no one takes themselves too seriously, then we can be free of all pretense and fakery.
When we realize we have warts even admitting them, we will not be inclined to elevate ourselves above anyone else.
This is not a discussion about sin, but about personality and gender variety.
God made such beauty in the world, the flowers are all different shapes and colors. So too, He made all manner of personality and two very different genders, when we mix with one another, we have a richer life experience than if everyone were the same.
Perhaps humility is the element that allows us to accept one another!
Definition of Humility : "a modest or low view of one's own importance; humbleness."