People say; "you don't know my heart", but what they don't know is that our our actions reveal what is on the inside.
What we do on the outside is only tip of the iceberg of what is on the inside. Mankind tends to attempt to appear better than what is in their heart. They hide the truth because they know they are wrong or don't have the answer.
When we have seen a woman on the beach in a bikini, it is a reflection of a much deeper problem in the heart. Our heart cannot be different from our outer actions, but often it is far worse than what we show to others. The mantra; "only God knows the heart" has been taken out of context to mean we cannot know ever what is in the heart of a man. God says it differently than mankind has promoted.
Luke 16:15:
"You are the ones who justify yourselves in the sight of people, but God knows your hearts; because that which is highly esteemed among people is detestable in the sight of God."
Wow, context makes a difference, doesn't it?!!!
Matthew 7:16-17 " 16 By their fruit you will recognize them. Are grapes gathered from thornbushes, or figs from thistles? 17 Likewise, every good tree bears good fruit, but a bad tree bears bad fruit."
Galatians 5:22-23
"But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, / gentleness, and self-control. Against such things there is no law."
Many people can pretend love and kindness for a period of time, but if their heart is wickedness, the false outer self will dissipate at the slightest challenge to seek holiness. No one with a bad heart can hide forever, eventually what is the real them will come oozing out for all to see. Someone with a good heart will want to hear truth from God's Word and highly value learning more about God.
God gave us principles that help us read the heart of a person, we cannot perfectly know someone's heart but there are always clues that give a wicked heart away. Jesus Christ lives in us and He tells warns us about a bad spirit and blesses us with joy at the presence of a lovely spirit.
Proverbs 1:7 " 7The fear of the LORD is the beginning of knowledge, but fools despise wisdom and discipline."
If you have ever been in a group of Christians and they acted as though you did something wrong by bringing Scripture to the conversation to clarify God's meaning, and you were met with blank stares and even anger as though you did something wrong, this is a clue. Of course, over time we put together other clues that give us more information, and then we know if this is someone who will enhance our walk with Christ or someone who will attempt to destroy it.
Sometimes the Holy Spirit warns us before we have any clues, then we pray and ask Him to show us what we are seeing and sensing.
I have been in a couple of groups of people who were lovely, kind and interested in everything from the Bible. These people were delighted to hear from God's Word and they all agreed about what God said.
Romans 12:16-18
"16 Be of the same mind toward one another; do not be haughty in mind, but associate with the lowly. Do not be wise in your own estimation. 17 Never repay evil for evil to anyone. Respect what is right in the sight of all people. 18 If possible, so far as it depends on you, be at peace with all people."
How is it possible for a group of people to be of the same mind? There is only one way and that is for everyone to be in the Word of God continually seeking truth as they are led by the Holy Spirit.
In my experience with these two groups there wasn't perfect agreement but there was a desire to find out the truth using God's word, so that we could come to an agreement by leading of the Holy Spirit. No one looked down on anyone else because there was all the fruit of God's Spirit and most of all there was love.
There cannot be agreement when everyone is arrogant and self-righteous desiring to be superior to others. Those who are of this sort cannot coordinate with anyone, they seek one thing and that is to be the center of attention and loftier than others. There is no love in pride and arrogance.
1 Corinthians 13:4-8
"Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude"
"It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful"
"It does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth"
"Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things" "Love never ends"
This kind of love is rare in our day because everything godly has been extinguished from the world and everything wicked has been promoted. Sinful pride is the new normal everywhere, even in those who pretend to be good people for a time but are rude and mean when confronted with their own flaws.
2 Timothy 3:1-5
Difficult (ragingly insane) Times Will Come
3 But realize this, that in the last days difficult times will come.
2 For people will be lovers of self, lovers of money, boastful, arrogant, slanderers, disobedient to parents, ungrateful, unholy,
3 unloving, irreconcilable, malicious gossips, without self-control, brutal, haters of good,
4 treacherous, reckless, conceited, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God,
5 holding to a form of godliness although they have denied its power; avoid such people as these."
Christians are now navigating through these mean streets, surrounded on all sides by selfish, rude, and disrespectful people who claim they are not. Their veneer of friendliness is very thin, ready to crack at the slightest perceived offense that does not elevate them as special.
We have all heard the word "snowflake" in reference to the present generation, a little bit of heat, and a person melts as if there was nothing of substance in them that could rationally evaluate life or themselves.
The best things we can do as believers is stay in the word, evaluate ourselves continually, and seek Christ to make us what He wants us to be in these last days.
The longer we are in the world surrounded by worldly people the more likely we are to become like them to some degree if we are not continually seeking Christ for the answers to everything, and then believing Him when He tells us the truth.
The world will chip away at our resolve to follow Christ, it will use every trick in the book of the devil to undermine our walk, but with Christ living in us we can resist and continue to progress in sanctification and holiness.
John 14:1-2 "1Do not let your hearts be troubled. You believe in God; believe in Me as well. 2 In My Father’s house are many rooms. If it were not so, would I have told you that I am going there to prepare a place for you?"
In this passage, God is encouraging us that this world is not our home and that our home is where the love will be all the time with everyone who is there.
I don't know about you but I am looking to this more than ever now as our time is shortened here and we will be going home.
Isaiah 41:10
"Do not fear, for I am with you; do not be afraid, for I am your God. I will strengthen you; I will surely help you; I will uphold you with My righteous right hand."