Romans 8:9 the Scripture clearly tells us, "But ye are not in the flesh, but in the Spirit, if so be that the Spirit of God dwells in you. Now if any man has not the Spirit of Christ, he is none of his."
As soon as someone is born again they are given the Holy Spirit.
Ephesians 1:13-14 "…13And in Him, having heard and believed the word of truth—the gospel of your salvation—you were sealed with the promised Holy Spirit, 14 who is the pledge of our inheritance until the redemption of those who are God’s possession, to the praise of His glory."
Be careful about who you listen to, there are many false doctrines afoot!