When I die and leave this earth God remembers my prayers. Anyone who says NEVER stop praying for the family doesn't understand that the number of prayers we speak to God is not the issue, it is the desire of our heart that He is looking at not numbers.
We are not heard because of our many prayers we are heard because Christ lives in us and knows our desires before we speak them.
Nagging God about something we want is tantamount to not accepting His will, and we are not responsible for whether or not our children obey Christ.
No one sends someone else to hell, those who go there do it because of their own choice to disobey Christ.
The one scripture that comes to mind is the widow who nagged the ruler and because of her nagging the ruler gave her what she wanted. This scripture has been used as an example that we "must" nag God until He gives us what we want. This is a classic example of taking scripture out of context to justify humanistic thinking.
I have actually experienced people nagging me to keep praying about one issue that has been resolved in my heart to accept God's will.
God will not thwart His own will just because we nag Him.
Notice something about the parable of the widow nagging the judge and getting what she wanted. Note that the judge was an unjust judge, we could never say that God is unjust.
God is not unjust ever!!!!! The passage was referring to our dealings in an unjust world, not with Him.
It is important that we not make mandates and pressures to do things based on scripture taken out of context and used as though it is a rule from God.
Jesus Christ can actually tell us to stop praying for those who have rejected Him. And, He never encourages us to continue to pray for things that are against His will.
Remember Paul the apostle? He stopped praying for an answer to a trouble after three times, accepting God's will for that problem.
2 Corinthians 12:8-10: Paul asked the Lord to take away the thorn, but God replied, "My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness"
We must be careful not to make rules and promote ideas that God never taught. It is wonderful to pray as led by the Holy Spirit but it is also futile to pray when God does not want us to pray. Sometimes He wants us to turn someone over to satan to be buffeted so that they learn to turn to Christ.
How many things do Christians believe today that God never said, but they hang onto because of all the years they were taught something and it feels so right but is inaccurate.