When Christ changed me into a new creation, I was under the delusion that the way all the other "Evangelicals" did it was the right way, and I sought to be like them, until I prayed for wisdom and truth about everything all the time.
Then the Lord opened my eyes, the more I prayed for wisdom, the more uncomfortable I felt with what I was doing and what my friends were doing, the things they were saying and the ways they were acting were so prideful and superior that it repulsed me.
Matthew 23:15 "… 15 Woe to you, scribes and Pharisees, you hypocrites! You traverse land and sea to win a single convert, and when he becomes one, you make him twice as much a son of hell as you are."
There was then, and even much more now, a sense of arrogance in the church gatherings. They preached love but did not demonstrate it the way God wrote about it in His Word.
Correction was disallowed within the gathering if the correction came from an "underling," not the designated "paid-pastor." And, all the other underlings were not to be corrected by one of their peers; the designated paid-pastor was allowed to correct others, at least in the minds of the "underlings."
Even those who had been Christians for many years and followed certain men thought it was arrogant for an "underling" to correct one of their favorite elevated men, educated in a seminary. They used scripture out of context to intimidate the underling from criticizing the elite pastor.
There was and is a sort of idolatry present when a "pastor" walked into the room. Anyone who did not elevate him as special was considered rebellious.
Status for the paid-pastor was and is enormous and raised to the level of "vicar for Christ", at least in their thinking, even if they would deny it, they resented anyone who would correct the designated "Vicar."
When we place any person above Christ, that person is an idol.
Romans 12:16 "
Be of the same mind toward one another; do not be haughty in mind, but associate with the lowly. Do not be wise in your own estimation."
There is a sort of specialness by osmosis when someone elevates and associates with the designated exceptional personage. Sadly, this mentality creates pride in the one being elevated; often, they become incensed that anyone would dare challenge them. And all those who follow them are also antagonistic toward the one who desires truth over status.
Everyone has a job in the body of Christ, and everyone is equal; the only elevated One is the Holy Spirit. He alone is to be trusted; everything else anyone says is to be tested through the Word of God.
1 Corinthians 12:12-26
"12 For just as the body is one and yet has many parts, and all the parts of the body, though they are many, are one body, so also is Christ.
13 For by one Spirit we were all baptized into one body, whether Jews or Greeks, whether slaves or free, and we were all made to drink of one Spirit.
14 For the body is not one part, but many.
14 For the body is not one part, but many.
15 If the foot says, “Because I am not a hand, I am not a part of the body,” it is not for this reason any less a part of the body.
16 And if the ear says, “Because I am not an eye, I am not a part of the body,” it is not for this reason any less a part of the body.
17 If the whole body were an eye, where would the hearing be? If the whole body were hearing, where would the sense of smell be? 18 But now God has arranged the parts, each one of them in the body, just as He desired.
19 If they were all one part, where would the body be?
20 But now there are many parts, but one body.
21 And the eye cannot say to the hand, “I have no need of you”; or again, the head to the feet, “I have no need of you.”
22 On the contrary, it is much truer that the parts of the body which seem to be weaker are necessary;
23 and those parts of the body which we consider less honorable, on these we bestow greater honor, and our less presentable parts become much more presentable,
24, whereas our more presentable parts have no need of it. But God has so composed the body, giving more abundant honor to that part which lacked,
25 so that there may be no division in the body, but that the parts may have the same care for one another.
26 And if one part of the body suffers, all the parts suffer with it; if a part is honored, all the parts rejoice with it."
20 But now there are many parts, but one body.
21 And the eye cannot say to the hand, “I have no need of you”; or again, the head to the feet, “I have no need of you.”
22 On the contrary, it is much truer that the parts of the body which seem to be weaker are necessary;
23 and those parts of the body which we consider less honorable, on these we bestow greater honor, and our less presentable parts become much more presentable,
24, whereas our more presentable parts have no need of it. But God has so composed the body, giving more abundant honor to that part which lacked,
25 so that there may be no division in the body, but that the parts may have the same care for one another.
26 And if one part of the body suffers, all the parts suffer with it; if a part is honored, all the parts rejoice with it."
It is mankind in their arrogance who have elevated some spiritual gifts above others. God never did that; all the gifts are from Him for His purposes, and no one was superior to another. Because of this, no part of the body is elevated above another, no part of the body is without need for teaching and correction, edification and discipline.
Those who act as though one gift that comes from God is better than another gift is denying God's purpose in all things.
We ought not to question the purposes of God; we cannot understand all that God is doing, and should be humble enough to admit it.
Isaiah 55:9 "…8“For My thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways My ways,” declares the LORD. 9“For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so My ways are higher than your ways and My thoughts than your thoughts."
No man is more special than another, no gift is more special than another, it is only Christ Who is above all!!!!
And, final thought, it seems to me that the most used people mentioned in the Bible were those who were thought of as lesser by their peers. Just saying!