If Christ had focused on His feelings, He never would have gone to the cross on our behalf.
Luke 22:42 "42“ Father, if You are willing, take this cup from Me. Yet not My will, but Yours be done.” 43 Then an angel from heaven appeared to Him and strengthened Him."
Next time we hear someone say, "God wouldn't want me to go through that", remind them that God didn't withhold His perfect Son who had no sin, to suffer and die for others even while they were still sinners.
Romans 5:7-9 "…7 It is rare indeed for anyone to die for a righteous man, though for a good man someone might possibly dare to die. 8 But God proves His love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us. 9 Therefore, since we have now been justified by His blood, how much more shall we be saved from wrath through Him!…"
Knowing that most of mankind would not receive Him, Christ went to the cross anyway for those who would choose Him. He desired that everyone come to Him, but knew most would not.
2 Corinthians 5:15 "15 And He died for all, that those who live should no longer live for themselves, but for Him who died for them and was raised again. "
When we are shocked about the sins of others, it is an indication that we have a very high opinion of ourselves as though we are not capable of such things.
A humble person may be surprised on occasion at the sin of someone who didn't normally do such things, however, when we have compassion in our hearts, armed with the knowledge that we are also capable of the very same thing apart from Christ, can express compassion and empathy.
2 Peter 3:17 "You therefore, beloved, knowing this beforehand, be on your guard so that you are not carried away by the error of unprincipled men and fall from your own steadfastness,"
When we encounter a believer who has sinned, seeing that they are broken over it and desire to be cleansed of it, then is when we should weep with them showing compassion over their grief. These are the ones that we should extend mercy to and help lift up, not only in prayer but in our encouraging words from Scripture.
Galatians 1:1-2 "1 Brothers, if someone is caught in a trespass, you who are spiritual should restore him with a spirit of gentleness. But watch yourself, or you also may be tempted. 2 Carry one another’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the Law of Christ.…"
Romans 12:15
"15 Rejoice with those who rejoice, weep with those who weep."
May we be a blessing for those who struggle and wish to grow in holiness.
