I just read an article about a woman who was being accused of neglecting her baby by putting the baby on the floor next to her feet while she sat in a chair at the airport. The mother was looking at her phone.
The accusation was that the mother was neglecting that baby even though it was happily laying on a clean blanket at its mother's feet.
This is the kind of foolishness and drama narcissists love to start. I saw the picture of the mother and the baby. The accusation was neglect, there was no neglect, the mother was right there every minute.
Narcissists cannot rest unless they are picking at someone about nothing. They can make a molehill into a mountain at the drop of a hat.
Apparently, the post was taken down and the woman gave her explanation. At one point she had been on the floor with the baby but got up to sit in the chair. The baby was quiet, maybe sleeping or happily laying there.
Sometimes I get so weary of the problems narcissists create with their relentless lust for drama at the expense of the reputations of others.
My suggestion, do not believe a narcissist unless you saw something for yourself, and even then, be sure you know all the facts before passing on anything the narcissist might say about what you think you saw.
Proverbs 20:19
"Whoever goes about slandering reveals secrets; therefore do not associate with a simple babbler."
Almost always those secrets that the narcissist has blabbered were not accurate but embellished with a much worse scenario not even close to the truth. They love to judge a person's character without enough information to be able to be accurate.
Do not listen to these narcissists and if you happen to hear before you can walk away, never repeat what you heard or even believe them.
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