The narcissists will ask you how you are doing so they can show you how disinterested they are through a lack of reaction or conversation about what you have told them.
When you see this happening it is best to let it go and keep your distance. Manipulation, intimidation and mocking are no basis for a relationship.
People who love you never use these tactics even once. Those who love you will be engaging and interested as well as share openly with you. There is no pretense with those who love others.
Romans 12:9-21
9 Love must be free of hypocrisy. Detest what is evil; cling to what is good. 10 Be devoted to one another in brotherly love; give preference to one another in honor, 11 not lagging behind in diligence, fervent in spirit, serving the Lord; 12 rejoicing in hope, persevering in tribulation, devoted to prayer, 13 contributing to the needs of the saints, practicing hospitality."
