Thursday, March 7, 2024

We are Only the Messengers

It is no human beings' job to "save souls", it is only and always the job of the Holy Spirit to convict of sin and restore when there is repentance.
Born-again people are merely messengers to bring the message of the gospel and it is the job of the Holy Spirit to use it in the lives of those who hear.
There is a saying we have all heard; "don't kill the messenger" I agree with this and I also agree with this; "don't praise the messenger", praise the Holy Spirit when someone hears the message of the gospel and responds in repentance.
We can rejoice with the messengers who saw the fruit of their message and the work of the Holy Spirit but only Christ gets all the glory.
Matthew 4:10
"Then Jesus said to him, “Be gone, Satan! For it is written, “‘You shall worship the Lord your God and him only shall you serve.’”
John 4:24
"God is spirit, and those who worship him must worship in spirit and truth.”
Romans 12:1
"I appeal to you therefore, brothers, by the mercies of God, to present your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and acceptable to God, which is your spiritual worship."
When our focus is on Jesus Christ and only Him all day long we can praise Him for His work in the lives of individuals.
Hallelujah!!!!

Narcissistic Cults

This is true in families and in the Church too! Sadly many people would rather follow a person than follow Christ

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/D35cMgvw-ZA

Narcissistic Cults

I have seen this for myself. In every narcissistic family, there is one cult leader who influences all the other family members.

The True Gospel


The Wretched Cliques of the Narcissist and their Flying Monkeys

Narcissistic abuse takes many forms, however, among Christians, the tactics have a little different look.
Family members do more to destroy family relationships through their example in how they treat us than with words. They use a lot of plausible deniability, the antics are so subtle that others who like the narcissist would either enjoy endorsing the antics or ignore it as though nothing wrong happened.
Adult children may believe something is wrong with us because of the dismissiveness, the lack of love, and the rude behavior toward us while in their presence.
It really is true; "more is caught than taught." Someone doesn't have to say anything against another person, all they have to do is ignore them, make disapproving grunting sounds and show total disinterest in your accomplishments while boasting about their own.
Our modern church is full of Cliques who approve of some people and dismiss others as insignificant.
James 2:9
"But if you show partiality, you are committing sin and are convicted by the law as transgressors."
Our entire culture in this region, the Pacific Northwest, is narcissistic in nature. Many people will use more covert ways to show disregard for someone who makes others believe something is wrong with the person who is their target.
One of the traits of narcissistic behavior is to diminish those who are perceived as "less than" others, with the intent of allowing the narcissist to fit into the "special, popular" ones.
Romans 12:2 "Do not be conformed to this world, but continuously be transformed by the renewing of your minds so that you may be able to determine what God’s will is—what is proper, pleasing, and perfect."
Those who desire to walk deeply with Christ will never fit into the cliques of the church or the world. The cliques in the church are worldly depending more on their superficial persona than a depth of Christianity that comes from seeking the approval of Christ rather than the approval of man.
James 2:1
"My brothers, show no partiality as you hold the faith in our Lord Jesus Christ, the Lord of glory."
Galatians 1:10
"10 For am I now seeking the approval of man, or of God? Or am I trying to please man? If I were still trying to please man, I would not be a servant of Christ."
Never feel badly that you have been ignored, marginalized, and even maligned, it is a good sign that you are not adhering to the cultic nature of the world whether it is in the church gathering or among unbelievers.
One person narcissists hate more than anyone else is the one who is strong and resolute in their walk with Christ. Narcissists are all about control over others, they despise anyone they cannot control and the born-again believer is controlled only by the Holy Spirit.
Matthew 10:21-23 "…21 Brother will betray brother to death, and a father his child; children will rise against their parents and have them put to death. 22 You will be hated by everyone because of My name, but the one who perseveres to the end will be saved. 23 When they persecute you in one town, flee to the next. "
We do not see adult children murdering their parents often these days but they are treating them in ways that demonstrate a hatred as a form of murder.
Matthew 5:21-22 "21 “You have heard that the ancients were told, ‘You shall not murder,’ and ‘Whoever commits murder shall be answerable to the court.’
22 But I say to you that everyone who is angry with his brother shall be answerable to the court; and whoever says to his brother, ‘You good-for-nothing,’ shall be answerable to the supreme court; and whoever says, ‘You fool,’ shall be guilty enough to go into the fiery hell. "
Hating, manipulating, dismissing, and gossiping against another brother or sister is seen as an act worthy of hell, this is how much God hates it.
May we seek out those who are being treated marginally with disregard and become a support for them.
Personally, even in school I never wanted to be a part of the "in crowd", they seemed so mean and silly to me. I always gravitated to those the "in crowd" mocked and demeaned just to feel superior.
Because I did this the "in crowd" began doing the same things to me. , I was treated this way continually by family, so I was familiar with the pain of rejection growing up.
I was not mocked by anyone until I defended those who were being treated disrespectfully. God took this trait in me and showed me the difference between those who loved God and those who are pretending to be Christians.
Never regret the rejection you experienced by mean-spirited people, it trains us to be the opposite of the world and makes us wonderfully joyful about being in the family of God, the real authentic family of God.
John 13:34-35
"34 I am giving you a new commandment, that you love one another; just as I have loved you, that you also love one another.
35 By this all people will know that you are My disciples: if you have love for one another.”
Walk in the love of Christ and you will never miss those wretched cliques!!! However, you may want to pray for those who have been caught up in them, that they find salvation in Christ.

The Faithful Brethren

My husband and I miss the brethren very much. It was a beautiful gathering where the Holy Spirit led enthusiastic believers to share from their hearts.
We were in one about ten years ago for ten years. We looked forward to meeting every week and sometimes during the week. We moved to the area we live now to be close to the Brethren.
Sadly they were all old people, we were the younger ones and many of them died.
But the group never grew even though they were very active in their younger years in the community with the jail ministry, the bus that gathered children to come to Sunday school, and evangelism.
Our community now has morphed into the woke agenda, Rick Warren promotions, and other ungodly false doctrines. Calvinism is also big here. We sense we know how Noah must have felt living in a world without fellowship.
In these faithful Brethren gatherings, there was no one up front to be the center of attention. The teacher led the teaching but all others were invited to obey the Holy Spirit when led by Him to interject during the teaching. No one had authority over another because it was the Holy Spirit Who was the Authority.
We live in a world where most aging parents have no fellowship with their children because the children have gone into the apostasy, even believing that everyone should attend those apostate gatherings.
Many years ago when I was a new believer I couldn't understand why a person who said they were Christian would not be "going to church." As I grew in the Lord I began to see why the ones who attended very small gatherings or none at all were those who saw the apostasy rising within the buildings.
God clearly said that born-again believers do not have temples to worship in, because they are the temple of the Holy Spirit. Their fellowship is with those who love Christ and His Word so much that they have "come out from among" those apostate gatherings to remain at home with two or three.
Matthew 18:20
"20 For where two or three have gathered together in My name, I am there in their midst.”
Romans 14:1-12 "14 Now accept the one who is weak in faith, but not to have quarrels over opinions.
2 One person has faith that he may eat all things, but the one who is weak eats only vegetables.
3 The one who eats is not to regard with contempt the one who does not eat, and the one who does not eat is not to judge the one who eats, for God has accepted him.
4 Who are you to judge the servant of another? To his own master he stands or falls; and he will stand, for the Lord is able to make him stand.
5 One person values one day over another, another values every day the same. Each person must be fully convinced in his own mind.
6 The one who observes the day, observes it for the Lord, and the one who eats, does so with regard to the Lord, for he gives thanks to God; and the one who does not eat, it is for the Lord that he does not eat, and he gives thanks to God.
7 For not one of us lives for himself, and not one dies for himself;
8 for if we live, we live for the Lord, or if we die, we die for the Lord; therefore whether we live or die, we are the Lord’s.
9 For to this end Christ died and lived again, that He might be Lord both of the dead and of the living.
10 But as for you, why do you judge your brother or sister? Or you as well, why do you regard your brother or sister with contempt? For we will all appear before the judgment seat of God.
11 For it is written:
“As I live, says the Lord, to Me every knee will bow,
And every tongue will give praise to God.”
12 So then each one of us will give an account of himself to God."
The problem with traditions is that they promote pride in the one observing them. It is human nature to feel safe doing something for God, even if it isn't what God told them to do. Obedience to God is different from doing something for God He never told us to do.
When people begin interpreting the Bible according to their culture the church suffers from arrogance and self-will. The groups who do this begin to exalt themselves for how special they are when in fact, they are disobeying God in many things justifying it with their human wisdom. Many people think if they do "some" of what God wants it is alright to disobey other things God commanded.
Those of us who love the Scriptures for the purpose of obeying God, are looking forward to the marriage supper of the Lamb where everyone will agree and we will all be with Christ.
Sometimes it is lonely for those who speak boldly about Christ, His Word and His principles, but the joy we have in trusting Him overrides that human need for companionship.
When you feel overwhelmed by a lack of fellowship with those who love Christ just remember Noah and Lot. We are walking in the last days of apostasy full of false believers and false doctrine.
2 Timothy 4:3
"3 For the time will come when they will not tolerate sound doctrine; but wanting to have their ears tickled, they will accumulate for themselves teachers in accordance with their own desires,"
Matthew 24:37-39
"37 For the coming of the Son of Man will be just like the days of Noah.
38 For as in those days before the flood they were eating and drinking, marrying and giving in marriage, until the day that Noah entered the ark,
39 and they did not understand until the flood came and took them all away; so will the coming of the Son of Man be."
Christ in us is our fellowship, He is enough, However it is a blessing God gave us to be able to connect on Facebook and other internet forums declaring the gospel and encouraging authentic believers.
Just remember that Marriage Supper where all that attend will love Christ as much as we do and will love us too.
Hallelujah!!!!