Saturday, February 13, 2016

Narcissists Blame Others

Narcissists always blame others for their own wicked behavior. When they assume something without proof, acting in retaliation over something that never happened, they will blame others for their lack of information, even when they never asked for clarification.

Narcissists will make a mountain out of a mole hill to gain emotional control over others. They love to feel angry and superior, there is no benefit to their targets to remain as their friend.

The devil is controlling the minds of those who have no defense againt him, because they are full of self insead of the Spirit of God, they will attempt to rule over others through manipulation and intimidation.

There is one way to combat this behavior on the part of the narcissist; refuse to engage with them while walking away. God can handle them, we don't need to attempt to make them understand or reason with them, they are unreasonable.

Do not become like the narcissist in order to exact revenge. When we engage with them they will mock us, using ridiculous language to frustrate, it makes them feel powerful. The more we engage with a narcissist the more we feed them the attention they are seeking.

Don't desire to keep the rebellious mocker in your life, their only aim is to keep things upside down, they get power from it.

"I learned long ago, never to wrestle with a pig. You get dirty, and besides, the pig likes it."

George Bernard Shaw

Prov 22:10 "Drive out the mocker, and out goes strife; quarrels and insults are ended.'"

2 Thessalonians 3:2 "And that we may be delivered from unreasonable and wicked men: for all men have not faith."

Prov 3:34 "He (God) mocks proud mockers but gives grace to the humble."

Prov 26:4 "Do not answer a fool according to his folly, or you will be like him yourself.'"

Prov 26:5 "Answer a fool according to his folly, or he will be wise in his own eyes.'"

Don't make things easy for the mocker;

Prov 22:11 "When a mocker is punished, the simple gain wisdom; when a wise man is instructed, he gets knowledge.'"

Prov 29:8"Mockers stir up a city, but wise men turn away anger."

Far too many believers allow mockers and wicked people, often family members to remain in their lives reeking havoc for no other purpose than to feel power over those who are too humble and meek to stand up to them.

Humility and meekness, does not mean that we are to put up with wicked people who refuse to obey Christ. Our patience in Christ is in removing ourselves while Christ works on them.








Nothing is as it Seems!

A good man will not be elected to the presidency. Just look all around us, watch the foolishness and evil that dwells round about. Roses look pretty but they have thorns that can hurt us and over time will whither and die, that's where we are at, that which looks good............is not!

Nothing is as it seems now, everything is about pretense and perception. Our world loves to be fooled, appearances are all that matter, substance is not very important to most people today.

We live on a steady diet of pleasure seeking games and videos. The only thing that matters to this culture is the almighty dollar, to gain it for the purpose of more pleasure.

2 Timothy 2:22 "So flee youthful passions and pursue righteousness, faith, love, and peace, along with those who call on the Lord from a pure heart."

Galatians 5:19-21 "Now the works of the flesh are evident: sexual immorality, impurity, sensuality, idolatry, sorcery, enmity, strife, jealousy, fits of anger, rivalries, dissensions, divisions, envy, drunkenness, orgies, and things like these. I warn you, as I warned you before, that those who do such things will not inherit the kingdom of God."

Luke 8:14 "And as for what fell among the thorns, they are those who hear, but as they go on their way they are choked by the cares and riches and pleasures of life, and their fruit does not mature."