Headship and Headcovering - Mark Fitzpatrick Sermon

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Obeying Jesus Christ through His Word

Today I grieve a little at the ritualistic traditions that occur every Sunday in churches all over this country.

The preachers in these gatherings teach the unresponsive congregations what to think in terms of many false doctrinal explanations while negating most of God's word when it comes to relationships, ours to one another and ours to God Himself.

When most of what is being taught in the churches today is based on the teachings of men and not what God actually said, there is a denial of Jesus Christ in practice if not in concepts and words.

When we claim God never said something or that He didn't mean something we are denying Jesus Christ.

I have heard people agree with me about what God said but go off and live their lives as though the truth was only something we say and that is enough, no changed heart and no changed actions must occur in their minds.

Matthew 15:7-9 "…7 You hypocrites! Isaiah prophesied correctly about you: 8‘ These people honor Me with their lips, but their hearts are far from Me. 9 They worship Me in vain; they teach as doctrine the precepts of men.’ ”…"

If you have ever had a family member tell you they love you but do not value anything you say and do you may have an inkling of how God must feel when we do this to Him.

Following Christ by rote, ritual and tradition is not pleasing to God. He wants our obedience to His written word. The Holy Spirit has ceased to speak to most people who say they are Christians because they will not obey what He has already said in His Word.

John 14:15 -16 "15 If you love Me, you will keep My commandments. 16 And I will ask the Father, and He will give you another Advocate to be with you forever—…"

1 John 2:3

"By this we can be sure that we have come to know Him: if we keep His commandments."

What we really need to hear from the pulpits today are not more ideas to ponder without reference to our own heart conditions, but rather principles Christ gave us in His Word. The entire Bible from Gensis to Revelation teaches us how to live for God.

We don't do the same things the Jews did under the Law but the principles taught in the Old Testament remain, the lessons that are there still have weight and are a picture of the fulfilled new testament.

1 John 5:3

"For this is the love of God, that we keep His commandments. And His commandments are not burdensome,"

Those who become angry at a correction with the word of God, even punishing the one who brings the correction, are not seeking holiness.

The preachers in the pulpits think they should have power over those in the pews, dictating to them what they should believe while spurning anyone in the pew who corrects them through the power of the Holy Spirit.

In all my years in church gatherings rarely was a time when people were admonished to seek the Holy Spirit while reading the word of God to determine how to live their lives or for God to reveal in them anything that does not honor God so that they may live a life submitted to Christ.

The preaching these days is an exercise in telling the people in the pews what to believe but not how to seek the Holy Spirit. If someone steps forward to correct a wrong teaching or a wrong attitude that person is summarily rejected becoming the avoided one from that point forward.

God clearly taught that we are to be subject to one another, listening to one another as brothers and sisters, while each person is grateful for the admonishment going to Christ in them to be sure if what was said is true.

In our day, the preacher up front discourages disagreement, allows wrong doctrine to be spoken and rejects anyone who wishes to go deeper to discern truth.

John 14:21-24

"He that hath my commandments, and keepeth them, he it is that loveth me: and he that loveth me shall be loved of my Father, and I will love him, and will manifest myself to him…"

God's principles in His Word are not suggestions they are commands to be sought after like fine gold.

James 1:5

"If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God, who gives generously to all without reproach, and it will be given him."

God never once said if you lack wisdom go to the pastor, the elder, or the family friend, He told us to go to Him for wisdom. If we never go to the Holy Spirit in prayer just believing what others tell us we will not gain wisdom. This will only cause us to develop a religion based on man's thinking but not God's.

Just recently an elder man brought a young man to my door to speak to me about the JW religion. I spoke to the young man encouraging him to not believe any person or read any writings by men and to read the Bible by himself while asking the Holy Spirit to show him truth.

My hope is that the older man will also take my advice but it is more likely the young man who is still somewhat pliable may do what I suggested. They both got the gospel message while they were on my porch. Sadly the older folks who have been in the JW system all their lives are so locked in they are difficult to reach with the truth.

The longer a person has the false gospel the harder they are to reach because it all sounds so right. Damaging the soul over and over again for many years with false teaching leaves scars that are difficult to penetrate with the truth.

There are so many ways and times we have to share the truth of God's Word just in daily life, let's not be shy. If we are confident in the Lord we will be more concerned about what God thinks and what pleases Him than we are about the reaction of those who hear the message.

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The Day of Atonement

The meaning of Yom Kippur is the "day of atonement. "

A part of the atonement God required of the Jews was that one must ask forgiveness to the one they have offended before they can go before God to ask forgiveness.

Matthew 5:22-24 "…22 But I tell you that anyone who is angry with his brother will be subject to judgment. Again, anyone who says to his brother, ‘Raca,’ will be subject to the Sanhedrin. But anyone who says, ‘You fool!’ will be subject to the fire of hell. 23 So if you are offering your gift at the altar and there remember that your brother has something against you, 24 leave your gift there before the altar. First go and be reconciled to your brother; then come and offer your gift.…"

Matthew 5:24

"leave your gift there before the altar. First go and be reconciled to your brother; then come and offer your gift."

God's principles do not change, He is always the same and expects the same as He always has.

Malachi 3:6

“For I, the Lord, do not change; therefore you, O sons of Jacob, are not consumed."

Hebrews 13:8

"Jesus Christ is the same yesterday and today and forever."

God will not forgive our sin against another person until we have first reconciled with the one we have offended.

1 Peter 1:23

"for you have been born again not of seed which is perishable but imperishable, that is, through the living and enduring word of God."

When the American church adds their traditions God never commanded as well as their own ideas that God never spoke to the teachings of the Bible they are blaspheming God.

To Blaspheme God is to show great disrespect for Him and the principles of His word. Added to this is to show great disrespect to those who love God because they belong to Him.

To fight and argue against the truths of God's Word while claiming to be a Christian is a form of blaspheming God.

Blaspheming God is insulting or showing contempt for God and His principles. Many pretenders do this regularly when they fight against the truth to defend their traditions that God never commanded and when they refuse to hear God's Word in correction.

In our present day, people not only never ask forgiveness from one another they feel justified in their hatred and disrespect for others and refuse to be convicted of their sinful attitudes.

All the churches have turned their heart away from God to their traditions without conviction of this sin, even defending the sin of diverting the eyes of others from God to their traditions. They do not take seriously the sin of adding to God's Word or detracting from it in order to be able to commit their sin without guilt.

Someone once told me that as long as they have asked forgiveness of God they don't have to confront the one they offended to ask forgiveness. This is not Biblical but has been taught in recent years.

God has a reason for compelling us to ask forgiveness, that reason is that it is harder to consider repeating a sin against someone if we have to see them face to face and humble ourselves in front of them. Confessing our sin to the one we offend is humbling and life-changing. Without this practice, there is no spiritual or emotional growth, only stagnation and regression.

This is why superficial forgiveness without confession of sin is so dangerous, it removes the necessary steps to humility that reconciles a relationship.

Some people say "I have forgiven them even though they are not sorry but I can't forget", this is not forgiveness and it does nothing except enable the offender to continue the same without change in their hearts. Not only do people remain the same without confession of sin they also grow deeper into their pride and willfulness.

We do not help people when we pridefully proclaim we forgive without repentance. It is pride that causes people to want to act as though they are superior to God by shortcutting His ways to feel better about themselves. This mentality prevents relationship reconciliation while fostering arrogance in everyone.

God wants humility to grow in believers. Without confession, there is no humility, only regression into deeper sins of pride.

Proverbs 11:2 “When pride comes, then comes disgrace, but with humility comes wisdom.”

Proverbs 16:5 “The LORD detests all the proud of heart."