Narcissists take everything personally. They will take an innocent comment and make it sound like it was rude when it was not. And worse, they will tell their perspective to others in hopes the others will hate you too.
The Pharisees did this to Christ. The accused Him of evil when all He did was pure and righteous.
Proverbs 29:8-10
But wise people turn away anger.
9 When a wise person has a controversy with a foolish person,
The foolish person either rages or laughs, and there is no rest.
10 People of bloodshed hate the blameless person,
But the upright are concerned for his life."
