Kind people treat others with respect because of who the kind person is on the inside, they don't pick and choose who to be kind to because it is in their nature to be so.
Those who treat one person disrespectfully and someone else with respect do not love anyone unconditionally. They only love those who enhance themselves in some way.
Those who play favorites are those who love only themselves and are looking for validation they believe measure up to their ideas.
Narcissists often embellish in their own minds ideas they wish to believe about someone to either maintain a sort of "god-like" person or in the case of the devalued person someone who does not deserve kindness.
Those who have a loving nature don't devalue anyone. They are not by nature arrogant or rude, it isn't in them.
The kind loving person is described in the passage below. The very nature of the kind people all the time to everyone are those who do not walk in superiority to others and they love the truth, even if it exposes something about themselves.
1 Corinthians 13:4–8a Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth.
