Next Time a Feminist Asks you if you Work say; "Very hard I am a homemaker and dedicated to it."

Feminism has ruined the woman's life experience. Even those women who have resisted becoming feminists have been indoctrinated to it to some degree.

The one who is the CEO of her home taking care of every need, every repair, the teaching and training of children and serves because she wants to do so is demeaned by most of the culture, even many who say they are Christians have been trained by the culture to be ashamed of homemaking. And yet, if a woman becomes a household manager for a wealthy couple she will be elevated as having a career, while doing exactly the same jobs a homemaker does in her own home.

The difference between the homemaker and the household manager of the wealthy is that the household manager is paid and the homemaker does what she does without pay. She manages and makes all the purchases of the household so it isn't as though she has no money of her own. The household income belongs to both she and her husband and she manages it far more than the husband does.

The devil has worked hard to convince the woman that she is demeaned by working hard for her family to make sure all needs are met.

Sadly even Christian women feel they cannot have value unless they do the same jobs men do.

Feminists have demeaned women by making them think they have no worth or value unless they become like men. I can't think of anything more degrading and humiliating than to be told you are unworthy as a women if you do not do the same things men do.

I have never been bored in my job as the homemaker, every day was filled with many diverse things I was working on. The only "boss" I had over myself was God. I did things my own way taking into account my husband desires but I had the last say if his idea did not fit well with the plan. He deferred to me in matters of the household because he knew I was given this job by God, to dictate to me how it would be run would be to usurp God.

God gave the man the job of the wage-earning even though at times I earned money other ways without leaving the home to be under a workplace boss.

Why would women prefer to work under someone else, deferring to them for their job when they were their own boss at home as the CEO of their household? It only appeals to those who think the paycheck and praise from others has more value than taking care of their own families.

The women in the home had been the stability of the family until the feminist movement which managed to destroy that stability appealing to women who were too weak to evaluate the importance of managing the home.

Because I have remained in the home all my life except for six weeks when our children were gone and we had moved to a new town where I didn't know anyone. I took on a job at Lockheed Martin as a temp to archive files for the nuclear plant.

The bosses were great and gave me the freedom to divise my own system of computer filing and reboxing the files. But it didn't fulfill me because I would leave work and go home to the things that were left undone in my own job at home.

It is silly to think that if a woman does not work under a boss at a paid job outside the home she must be less intelligent. It is my assertion that it takes a wise and industrious women to work in the home as she makes all the decisions instead of under the watchful eye of a superior outside the home.

Of course, there are lazy "housewives" who do not do their job well just as there are lazy workers in industry who do not do their jobs well. This is not about the job it's about the slothful mentality of someone who does as little as possible just to get by.

A diligent homemaker makes many important decisions that impact the entire family. She is not only industrious in her work but also creative.

The Proverbs 31 woman is wise, smart, and intuitive as she makes decisions for the household. It is God's way that the woman work hard in her job as the CEO of her household as her own boss. When the husband comes home from his job or calling he does not have to do things that the wife has already done. They can both rest in the evening because nothing is left undone.

To reiterate, feminism has brainwashed women to think they have no value unless they leave the home to work under another boss. It has caused ruin to the family structure and diminished the Christian witness in the community.

The following passage shows us the diversity of the woman's job as given by God and how it enhances the reputation of the husband's standing in the community. Read it carefully and see how industrious and fulfilled this woman is and that she can never be bored. She does not need to seek accolades from others for what she does because she enjoys the gift of homemaking God has given to her.

Proverbs 31

Description of a Worthy Woman

"10 An excellent wife, who can find her?

For her worth is far above jewels.

11 The heart of her husband trusts in her,

And he will have no lack of gain.

12 She does him good and not evil

All the days of her life.

13 She looks for wool and linen,

And works with her hands in delight.

14 She is like merchant ships;

She brings her food from afar.

15 And she rises while it is still night

And gives food to her household,

And portions to her attendants.

16 She considers a field and buys it;

From her earnings she plants a vineyard.

17 She surrounds her waist with strength

And makes her arms strong.

18 She senses that her profit is good;

Her lamp does not go out at night.

19 She stretches out her hands to the distaff,

And her hands grasp the spindle.

20 She extends her hand to the poor,

And she stretches out her hands to the needy.

21 She is not afraid of the snow for her household,

For all her household are clothed with scarlet.

22 She makes coverings for herself;

Her clothing is fine linen and purple.

23 Her husband is known in the gates,

When he sits among the elders of the land.

24 She makes linen garments and sells them,

And supplies belts to the tradesmen.

25 Strength and dignity are her clothing,

And she smiles at the future.

26 She opens her mouth in wisdom,

And the teaching of kindness is on her tongue.

27 She watches over the activities of her household,

And does not eat the bread of idleness.

28 Her children rise up and bless her;

Her husband also, and he praises her, saying:

29 “Many daughters have done nobly,

But you excel them all.”

30 Charm is deceitful and beauty is vain,

But a woman who fears the Lord, she shall be praised.

31 Give her the product of her hands,

And let her works praise her in the gates."

There is no lack of fulfillment in this woman, she is far more fulfilled than if she was under the authority of a boss in industry, her freedom to express herself is limitless and she is never bored.

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2Lydia Uebele and Rebecca Bailey