Rebellious People Can Learn the Language too, but it is a Lie

Rebellious people may offer an apology like: "I'm sorry you got angry", but not "I'm sorry for what I have done."

Those who have been ashamed of their own actions can easily own up to it and tell on themselves because they care about the relationship.

Since narcissists don't care about others, only themselves, they may feel the loss of a friend but never that they did something to that friend only that the friend no longer pays attention to them.

Proverbs 12:22-24 "…22Lying lips are detestable to the LORD, but those who deal faithfully are His delight. 23A shrewd man keeps his knowledge to himself, but a foolish heart proclaims its folly. 24The hand of the diligent will rule, but laziness ends in forced labor."

Never allow back into your life someone who has repeatedly and consistently treated you with disrespect. If they have really changed they will not want to bother you because they will know how much they have hurt you and that you can never believe them again.

I can't tell you the number of times certain people have claimed they were Christians just to worm their way back into our lives to continue manipulating and dominating. The devil gives these people all the right words that tug at our kind hearts only to trap us once again.

Jesus Christ will tell us when someone is repentant and He will warn us if it is a trick. Never follow your empathetic feelings on this, do nothing until the Holy Spirit speaks clearly to you.

The people who have been liars and tricksters know exactly the right words to say to make their target feel guilty for using a very important word; "NO."

When God tells us to do or not do something we have no reason to "feel" guilt but we will have reason to rejoice that the Lord helped us dodge another bullet.

Proverbs 15:2

"The tongue of the wise commends knowledge, but the mouth of the fool spouts folly."

Trust the Lord with all your heart for everything and do not ever trust the one who is attempting to guilt you into a decision.

Proverbs 3:5-6

"5 Trust in the Lord with all your heart

And do not lean on your own understanding.

6 In all your ways acknowledge Him,

And He will make your paths straight."

People will attempt to make us feel guilty for not doing what they want even when Christ in us gave us clear direction that "NO will be NO."

Covert Narcissists Have No Business Assuming Things About Anyone

Covert narcissists assume many things. Even when you are speaking in generalities about the world or someone else you don't name, they will assume you are talking about them.

There is so much guilt and pride in the heart of a narcissist that they believe even our general statements are about them.

If the covert narcissist would simply admit their sinful attitudes and covert actions they could be free of that guilt through the cleansing of Christ.

When anyone is guilty of sin there must be a denial and constant justifying it to remain emotionally steady. The guilt plagues them continually so they must make up ideas in their head why someone else is at fault for shaming them.

They believe others are shaming them because the narcissist is regularly shaming others. Shame is the "go to " manipulation of the narcissist who must appear superior to others. If they do not feel superior they feel that they are nothing.

The Lord Jesus Christ is God and knows perfectly what works in freeing someone from their sin as well as their guilt. Those who are defending their sin or justifying their sin are in bondage to it. They cannot be freed from it until they confess and ask God to cleanse them.

Romans 6:6-7 in the Bible says, "We know that our old self was crucified with him in order that the body of sin might be brought to nothing, so that we would no longer be enslaved to sin. For one who has died has been set free from sin".

Romans 6:18 "18 You have been set free from sin and have become slaves to righteousness. 19I am speaking in human terms because of the weakness of your flesh. Just as you used to offer the parts of your body in slavery to impurity and to escalating wickedness, so now offer them in slavery to righteousness leading to holiness.…"

Romans 8:2 "For the law of the Spirit of life has set you free in Christ Jesus from the law of sin and death."

Spreading the Gospel is the Greater Work that Believers will Do

God said that we would do greater works than Christ did, what could be greater than the healings, the answer is the gospel. Giving people the life saving gospel is far greater than healing them physically. When they are healed Spiritually by the blood of Christ they will die in the flesh but live for eternity in paradise with Christ.

The Church has Twisted Scripture through its use of Psychology Rather than Holy Spirit Wisdom from God's Word

Notice that narcissists will hold past forgiven sins against those who have turned their life around to follow Christ. They hate that someone is no longer walking sinfully because it shines a light on their own unforgiven sins that they refuse to admit they have.

God told us to confess our sins to Him and to others because this is the only way to be cleansed of them. Someone who will not admit and someone who forgives them without confession of the offender is an enabler.

People who chronically offend others and think it's alright to do so, will not change until there are consequences for unrepentance. God does not forgive those who will not repent and neither should we. This does not mean we hate them or that we do them any harm, it just means the relationship is not reconciled. It also does not mean we become bitter. It is the offender who refuses to admit their sin who is bitter.

Notice that the devil has lied to this generation convincing the church that we become bitter if we do not forgive an unrepentant soul who thinks their offenses are acceptable. And, the devil has convinced the church that we should show our compassion to the offender and pressure the offended to forgive unjustly. It is backward from what God says. Psychology has brain-washed a lot of people to think the opposite of what God teaches in His Word.

Now we are judging and disrespecting the victim of emotional and spiritual abuse while coddling the one who walks in rebellion, this leads a lot of church attendees to believe the mean one is the one who does not forgive unjustly the offender. While surrounding the offender with love and kindness further enabling them to continue in their sin of pride and refusal to stop their attacks.

Luke 17:2-4 "…2 It would be better for him to have a millstone hung around his neck and to be thrown into the sea than to cause one of these little ones to stumble. 3 Watch yourselves. If your brother sins, rebuke him; and if he repents, forgive him. 4 Even if he sins against you seven times in a day, and seven times returns to say, ‘I repent,’ you must forgive him.”…"

Notice God said "if he repents forgive him."

To be reconciled to God we must confess our sin to be forgiven and cleansed. If someone offends others they must confess their sin against them to be r3econciled to them. God expects us to operate the way He does.

1 John 1:9

"9 If we confess our sins, He is faithful and righteous, so that He will forgive us our sins and cleanse us from all unrighteousness."

Note: God says "if we confess He is faithful to forgive."

To Throw You Off Balance and Control You

What is Prosperity?

What is success, in the minds of most people, may not be at all. Success is when a failure has taught us something valuable that redirects our path. "All things work together for those who love Christ."

Someone is not successful when they love money and have gained a lot of it. A successful person is one who loves Christ and is continually learning from their life experiences.

Joseph of the Bible was hated by his brothers, thrown into a pit and sold off to be a slave. This hatred from his brothers was God's way of blessing him that surpassed any human effort.

The greatest blessings are learning things from our experiences that could not have been understood without the difficulties.

An easy life and pleasurable life doesn't teach very much.

James 1:2-4 "Count it all joy, my brothers, when you meet trials of various kinds, for you know that the testing of your faith produces steadfastness. And let steadfastness have its full effect, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing."

Matthew 5:12

"Rejoice and be glad, because great is your reward in heaven; for in the same way they persecuted the prophets before you."

Romans 5:3

"Not only that, but we also rejoice in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance;"

James 1:12

"Blessed is the man who perseveres under trial, because when he has stood the test, he will receive the crown of life that God has promised to those who love Him."

Why The Preaching In MOST Churches Is FALSE...

Amen, Amen!!!! Every word in the Bible are the Words of Christ, He is called "The Word", to ignore any portion of the Bible or change it is blasphemy against Christ, The Word.

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