Men and Women are Different and Feminism Lies

Men and women are different because God made them for different tasks and callings.

Feminism as directed by the devil, has propagated lies that men are better than women because of their roles.

Roles are not what makes someone better than someone else. Every role and job is necessary. Just because someone's role is different from someone else's role does not mean someone is without value and worth.

I grow weary of feminist liars claiming that they speak for all women. Who died and left them boss over "all women?"

Feminists do not speak for me neither does anyone else. I speak for myself, my choices are my own.

God told me how to conduct my life that is the best for me and others in my life. Most of all He told me what glorifies Him in my choice and I choose to obey Him of my own free will.

Feminism follows the dictates of the fallen, broken human heart and whatever the devil tells them, they are not free, they are in bondage to co-dependency, doing what everyone else tells them they should do so they can be accepted by the world. These are not strong women, they are weak and rebellious without good sense. or wisdom.

They must intimidate others to follow them because they cannot do something without followers or praise from people.

John 12:43

"43 for they loved human praise more than praise from God."

Anyone who makes their decision to become like someone else, in this case, a woman wants to be like a man, they are feeble and without power. They have no power, they only think they do. They are without strength only thinking they do.

Feminists are insecure, bossy over others and rude because intimidation is the only tool they have on their belt because of their weakness.

2 Corinthians 10:12

"We do not dare to classify or compare ourselves with some who commend themselves. When they measure themselves by themselves and compare themselves with themselves, they show their ignorance."

Proverbs 27:3

A stone is heavy and sand is a burden, but aggravation from a fool outweighs them both.

So we let the feminists be who they are but we do not allow them to convince us of their feeble and devilish ways that destroy marriages and all relationships. Let them be them, do not let them dictate to you what your choices will be.

Next Time a Feminist Asks you if you Work say; "Very hard I am a homemaker and dedicated to it."

Feminism has ruined the woman's life experience. Even those women who have resisted becoming feminists have been indoctrinated to it to some degree.

The one who is the CEO of her home taking care of every need, every repair, the teaching and training of children and serves because she wants to do so is demeaned by most of the culture, even many who say they are Christians have been trained by the culture to be ashamed of homemaking. And yet, if a woman becomes a household manager for a wealthy couple she will be elevated as having a career, while doing exactly the same jobs a homemaker does in her own home.

The difference between the homemaker and the household manager of the wealthy is that the household manager is paid and the homemaker does what she does without pay. She manages and makes all the purchases of the household so it isn't as though she has no money of her own. The household income belongs to both she and her husband and she manages it far more than the husband does.

The devil has worked hard to convince the woman that she is demeaned by working hard for her family to make sure all needs are met.

Sadly even Christian women feel they cannot have value unless they do the same jobs men do.

Feminists have demeaned women by making them think they have no worth or value unless they become like men. I can't think of anything more degrading and humiliating than to be told you are unworthy as a women if you do not do the same things men do.

I have never been bored in my job as the homemaker, every day was filled with many diverse things I was working on. The only "boss" I had over myself was God. I did things my own way taking into account my husband desires but I had the last say if his idea did not fit well with the plan. He deferred to me in matters of the household because he knew I was given this job by God, to dictate to me how it would be run would be to usurp God.

God gave the man the job of the wage-earning even though at times I earned money other ways without leaving the home to be under a workplace boss.

Why would women prefer to work under someone else, deferring to them for their job when they were their own boss at home as the CEO of their household? It only appeals to those who think the paycheck and praise from others has more value than taking care of their own families.

The women in the home had been the stability of the family until the feminist movement which managed to destroy that stability appealing to women who were too weak to evaluate the importance of managing the home.

Because I have remained in the home all my life except for six weeks when our children were gone and we had moved to a new town where I didn't know anyone. I took on a job at Lockheed Martin as a temp to archive files for the nuclear plant.

The bosses were great and gave me the freedom to divise my own system of computer filing and reboxing the files. But it didn't fulfill me because I would leave work and go home to the things that were left undone in my own job at home.

It is silly to think that if a woman does not work under a boss at a paid job outside the home she must be less intelligent. It is my assertion that it takes a wise and industrious women to work in the home as she makes all the decisions instead of under the watchful eye of a superior outside the home.

Of course, there are lazy "housewives" who do not do their job well just as there are lazy workers in industry who do not do their jobs well. This is not about the job it's about the slothful mentality of someone who does as little as possible just to get by.

A diligent homemaker makes many important decisions that impact the entire family. She is not only industrious in her work but also creative.

The Proverbs 31 woman is wise, smart, and intuitive as she makes decisions for the household. It is God's way that the woman work hard in her job as the CEO of her household as her own boss. When the husband comes home from his job or calling he does not have to do things that the wife has already done. They can both rest in the evening because nothing is left undone.

To reiterate, feminism has brainwashed women to think they have no value unless they leave the home to work under another boss. It has caused ruin to the family structure and diminished the Christian witness in the community.

The following passage shows us the diversity of the woman's job as given by God and how it enhances the reputation of the husband's standing in the community. Read it carefully and see how industrious and fulfilled this woman is and that she can never be bored. She does not need to seek accolades from others for what she does because she enjoys the gift of homemaking God has given to her.

Proverbs 31

Description of a Worthy Woman

"10 An excellent wife, who can find her?

For her worth is far above jewels.

11 The heart of her husband trusts in her,

And he will have no lack of gain.

12 She does him good and not evil

All the days of her life.

13 She looks for wool and linen,

And works with her hands in delight.

14 She is like merchant ships;

She brings her food from afar.

15 And she rises while it is still night

And gives food to her household,

And portions to her attendants.

16 She considers a field and buys it;

From her earnings she plants a vineyard.

17 She surrounds her waist with strength

And makes her arms strong.

18 She senses that her profit is good;

Her lamp does not go out at night.

19 She stretches out her hands to the distaff,

And her hands grasp the spindle.

20 She extends her hand to the poor,

And she stretches out her hands to the needy.

21 She is not afraid of the snow for her household,

For all her household are clothed with scarlet.

22 She makes coverings for herself;

Her clothing is fine linen and purple.

23 Her husband is known in the gates,

When he sits among the elders of the land.

24 She makes linen garments and sells them,

And supplies belts to the tradesmen.

25 Strength and dignity are her clothing,

And she smiles at the future.

26 She opens her mouth in wisdom,

And the teaching of kindness is on her tongue.

27 She watches over the activities of her household,

And does not eat the bread of idleness.

28 Her children rise up and bless her;

Her husband also, and he praises her, saying:

29 “Many daughters have done nobly,

But you excel them all.”

30 Charm is deceitful and beauty is vain,

But a woman who fears the Lord, she shall be praised.

31 Give her the product of her hands,

And let her works praise her in the gates."

There is no lack of fulfillment in this woman, she is far more fulfilled than if she was under the authority of a boss in industry, her freedom to express herself is limitless and she is never bored.

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Jesus Christ is the Ruler Over Our Lives

Satan will attempt to convince believers they are the opposite of this but he is a liar we need not listen to him. Christ lives in us He is the Ruler over our hearts.

Dawn Orner-Swails Behrens

We Obey God Now Under Grace Because He Has Changed Our Hearts

Joshua 1:8-9 "…8 This Book of the Law must not depart from your mouth; meditate on it day and night, so that you may be careful to do everything written in it. For then you will prosper and succeed in all you do. 9 Have I not commanded you to be strong and courageous? Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the LORD your God is with you wherever you go.”

Has God changed?

Malachi 3

"and he shall sit as a refiner and purifier of silver: and he shall purify the sons of Levi, and purge them as gold and silver, that they may offer unto the LORD an offering in righteousness."

Hebrews 13:8-9 ". 8Jesus Christ is the same yesterday and today and forever. 9Do not be carried away by all kinds of strange teachings, for it is good for the heart to be strengthened by grace and not by foods of no value to those devoted to them.…"

Those who teach that since we are under the blood of Christ after salvation it doesn't matter if we sin anymore are teaching a wicked doctrine.

Salvation in Christ through the power of the Holy Spirit gives us the means by which we can live without sin and an advocate when we fall we are convicted and desire to restore our fellowship with Christ again.

The Holy Spirit will go silent when a believer falls into sin until we confess it to be cleansed of that sin. He will bring consequences that remind us how wicked sin is and that He must cleanse our hearts.

1 John 2:1 "My little children, I am writing these things to you so that you may not sin. And if anyone sins, we have an Advocate with the Father, Jesus Christ the righteous;"

1 John 1:9

"9 If we confess our sins, He is faithful and righteous, so that He will forgive us our sins and cleanse us from all unrighteousness."

God will not leave us without consequences designed to return to obedience.

Hebrews 12:5-7 "…5 And you have forgotten the exhortation that addresses you as sons: “My son, do not take lightly the discipline of the Lord, and do not lose heart when He rebukes you. 6 For the Lord disciplines the one He loves, and He chastises every son He receives.” 7 Endure suffering as discipline; God is treating you as sons. For what son is not disciplined by his father?…"

If someone is not chastised by the Father to grow in holiness they do not belong to Christ.

Deuteronomy 8:5

"So know in your heart that just as a man disciplines his son, so the LORD your God disciplines you."

Psalm 94:12

"Blessed is the man You discipline, O LORD, and teach from Your law,"

Revelation 3:19

"Those I love, I rebuke and discipline. Therefore be earnest and repent."

Hebrews 12:8

"8 But if you are without discipline, of which all have become partakers, then you are illegitimate children and not sons."

Those who PRIDE themselves as living in sin without problems but consider themselves Christian do not understand it is proof they do not belong to Christ. Their religion is cultural and their god is themselves.

May many who have lived a cultural Christianity repent and trust in Christ to be changed by HIm, hating and rejecting sin while loving obedience to His principles.

Hallelujah!

It's Either a Drug or a Medicine Depending on how you Use It!

We have heard it said that the internet and Facebook are drugs that keep people hooked.

For the born-again believer who seeks Christ and fellowship with those who love Him, the internet is a medicine.

God said not to forsake the gathering of believers, for some of us this is the only connection we have with those who love Christ and look for His appearing.

2 Timothy 4:8 "in the future there is reserved for me the crown of righteousness, which the Lord, the righteous Judge, will award to me on that day; and not only to me, but also to all who have loved His appearing."

We are living as in the days of Noah and Lot, they had no one in their communities that would be an encouragement to them or come alongside, all they had and everything they needed was in God.

We are back in times like this with the exception of the wonderful provision of the internet to connect with other believers all over the world whom we have never met but are just as connected to them as if they were in front of us.

For those who criticize believers for using Facebook and the internet for connection with other believers I want to remind them that Paul wrote letters to and about people he had never met, only those letters took months to reach the readers of those letters. Our letters to believers around the world take seconds to reach them.

I believe God provided this medium of the internet for these last days when the entire world can be reached for Christ in moments rather than months. I am convinced this is another indication that Christ is coming for His church very soon, everyone of us who love Him can speak about Him to others on the other side of the world from our homes, without wearisome and expensive traveling. And, even the elderly who are too frail to travel can sit in their homes and do the work of evangelism reaching thousands of people in seconds.

I call this a miracle of God for the times we live in right before He takes us home.

Competitiveness is a Form of Jealousy

Competitiveness is a form of jealousy. It promotes self-exaltation as well as lacking in of love for others.

When we love others we are not interested in being above them. Our interest is in encouraging our brothers and sister to walk humbly with Christ.

1 Corinthians 13:4-8

"4 Love is patient, love is kind, it is not jealous; love does not brag, it is not arrogant.

5 It does not act disgracefully, it does not seek its own benefit; it is not provoked, does not keep an account of a wrong suffered,

6 it does not rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; 7 it keeps every confidence, it believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.:

James 3:16-17 "16 For where jealousy and selfish ambition exist, there will be disorder and every evil practice. 17 But the wisdom from above is first of all pure, then peace-loving, gentle, accommodating, full of mercy and good fruit, impartial, and sincere.…"

The only one we should compete with is ourselves to strive to become more holy through the help of the Lord Jesus Christ.

Whether we are above someone else or better than someone else is not in the mind of someone who loves genuinely.

Romans 2:8

"But for those who are self-seeking and who reject the truth and follow wickedness, there will be wrath and anger."

James 3:14

"But if you harbor bitter jealousy and selfish ambition in your hearts, do not boast in it or deny the truth."

Again:

1 Corinthians 13:4-8

"4 Love is patient, love is kind, it is not jealous; love does not brag, it is not arrogant.

5 It does not act disgracefully, it does not seek its own benefit; it is not provoked, does not keep an account of a wrong suffered,

6 it does not rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; 7 it keeps every confidence, it believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.:"

In The Last Days Mentalities Many People are Betrayed and Broken

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Never Be Intimidated by Guilt Trippers: They are Hypocrites

Have you ever been told by someone that you shouldn't correct others while they were correcting you for correcting? Irrational isn't it!

Have you ever been chastised for judging a matter while someone was judging you for judging? Irrational isn't it!

The Real Gospel

Amen!!!! Because people don't understand the gospel they don't follow His Word. His Word is the very essence of Jesus Christ.

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A Little Friday Levity!

If We Follow the Bible We will differ from the World Greatly

Once again I have encountered chatter about forgiveness that the Christian community teaches which is not Biblical. The belief that we forgive those who are not repentant for our own sake is no where found in Scripture. This idea was added to incorporate psychology based on Darwinism and humanism not the Bible.

Here is what God teaches:

Forgiveness is for the reconciliation of the relationship. God commanded us to "confess" our sin and the offended to "forgive", both are commanded, two sides of the same coin. God told us to forgive when they repent. We do not become bitter because they will not confess to be forgiven. God does not forgive us when we are not repentant.

Luke 17:3-5 "…3 Watch yourselves. If your brother sins, rebuke him; and if he repents, forgive him. 4 Even if he sins against you seven times in a day, and seven times returns to say, ‘I repent,’ you must forgive him.” 5 The apostles said to the Lord, “Increase our faith!”…"

It takes faith to do things God's way because the world and the devil will tell us the opposite of God's ways to thwart the principles of God that work.

It is psychology that has taught for years to forgive for our own sake, this is not what God said. We are to forgive to reconcile the relationship not for ourselves. When an offender refuses to be sorry then the relationship remains broken. We pray for them but we distance ourselves. If we encounter them we treat them with the respect they didn't give us but this is not forgiveness or reconciliation. This is to glorify God and keep ourselves from bitterness.

Luke 6:27-29 "27 But to those of you who will listen, I say: Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, 28 bless those who curse you, pray for those who mistreat you. 29 If someone strikes you on one cheek, turn to him the other also. And if someone takes your cloak, do not withhold your tunic as well.…"

When we ignore an insult, avoid wicked people and live according to God's word we will glorify God and this will anger the world.

To reconcile with someone who continually sins against us is to invite ungodly responses and perhaps to live in frustration. God does not want us to remain with those who are contentious, they will divert our attention from Christ to the problems they cause.

1 Peter 3:9

"Do not repay evil with evil or insult with insult, but with blessing, because to this you were called so that you may inherit a blessing."

Titus 3:9-11 "9 But avoid foolish controversies, genealogies, arguments, and quarrels about the law, because these things are pointless and worthless. 10 Reject a divisive man after a first and second admonition, 11 knowing that such a man is corrupt and sinful; he is self-condemned.…"

Narcissists will often poke at small things that do not matter to God to cause a reaction out of us so they can feel justified in their attempts at upsetting us. We must not allow their endeavor to shame to cause in us an ungodly reaction.

Satan can convince a pretender that what they do to others is justified and even good, but it is a lie and will decide many.

Have you ever noticed when you write something about a principle of God there will be those who get angry as though you spoke it to them even when their name was never mentioned?

This is because the world is in the spell of the evil one, he loves to cause anger and division in those who do not know Christ. If the devil can provoke a pretender into pressuring an authentic Christian into doubt and silence he counts himself as having one won something. He has won nothing and will never be able to cause a believer to leave Christ but he can cause others to stop listening to them.

Romans 16:17

"Now I urge you, brothers, to watch out for those who create divisions and obstacles that are contrary to the teaching you have learned. Turn away from them."

Avoiding the ungodly pretenders is a command of God, its not a choice but a mandate.

2 Peter 2:1

"But there were false prophets also among the people, even as there shall be false teachers among you, who privily shall bring in damnable heresies, even denying the Lord that bought them, and bring upon themselves swift destruction."

Pretenders deny the word of God when they say they are "Bible believers" but do not do what God says to do. They do not love the brethren nor do they follow Christ, they only say they do.

John 13:34-35 "…34 A new commandment I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you also must love one another. 35 By this everyone will know that you are My disciples, if you love one another.”

1 John 4:20-21

"If someone says, "I love God," and hates his brother, he is a liar; for he who does not love his brother whom he has seen, how can he love God whom he has not seen? And this commandment we have from Him: that he who loves God must love his brother also."

What does this love look like?

1 Corinthians 13:4-8

"4 Love is patient, love is kind, it is not jealous; love does not brag, it is not arrogant.

5 It does not act disgracefully, it does not seek its own benefit; it is not provoked, does not keep an account of a wrong suffered,

6 it does not rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; 7 it keeps every confidence, it believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things."

When there is love there is no assuming anything, but there is concern and dialogue to learn the intentions of the other person through listening.

When there is love there is no boasting or competitive spirit but there is joy, glee and encouragement for someone else's accomplishments.

When there is love there is not secrecy and manipulation to frustrate but there is openness, honesty and a desire to protect the feelings of others.

When there is love there is no gossip to gain others to ourselves and against others but there is a refusal to share guesses about others when there is no evidence of wrongdoing.

When there is love there is no judging of things we have little knowledge about but there is open conversations about what we see to learn the heart of the one we love to be a support to them.

When there is love there is no jealousy or envy over what someone else has but there is joy and pleasure in seeing others prosper whether it be in Spirit, in health, in accomplishments or financially. Our joy is magnified when we see others progressing.

We see how easy it is to discern love from hate when we know the word of God intimately and desire to follow the ways of Christ.