Sometimes is it almost comical, that the narcissist is so full of themselves that they believe we are going to agonize over their absence, sometimes there is that, but it does not last if the agony is not relieved.
We agonize in the beginning, but the longer it goes on, the more we are glad they are gone. Why on earth would be want to be with someone who treats us like bovine fecal matter.
Manipulation is a contemptuous mentality in order cause frustration and anger in someone else. If the manipulator can get us to be in a state of turmoil all the time, they will be able to feel superior to us.
When they see that they have had no effect, they will step up their tactics, moving on to triangulation, in which they attempt to gain allies, who will treat us in ways that mock and demean us as the narcissist was doing.
The narcissist is not content to control us, they must work at getting others to do the same. That's why it is valuable to remove ourselves not only from the narcissist but also from their flying monkeys, the ones who do the bidding of the narcissist.
When the "powers that be", during the time of Christ could not intimidate Christ and His apostles to stop preaching truth, they had nothing left to stop them so they killed them. The mental state of hatred manifested itself in the form of actual murder.
There is murder in the heart of a narcissist, hatred is their expression of murder. When they cannot get away with actually murdering us, they will do things to destroy us as a person, even if it means using others to accomplish this task.
Matthew 5:21 "21 You have heard that it was said to the ancients, ‘Do not murder,’ and anyone who murders will be subject to judgment.’ 22 But I tell you that anyone who is angry with his brother, will be subject to judgment. "
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