When someone who is a covert narcissist they often display elements of disapproval without speaking a word, it allows them to deny many things.
Covert narcissists hate straight talk, they prefer their surreptitious responses to be able to deny truth. When asked why they acted a particular way they will feign irritation as though we did something wrong in asking.
A reasonable and rational person when asked about their non-verbal expressions will calmly reply with an answer. When kind people are asked why they had that look or made that sound, will explain what they were thinking. Narcissists want us to be confused and unsettled.
1 Corinthians 14:33
"For God is not a God of confusion but of peace. As in all the churches of the saints,"
Those who love God want those they love to resolve things with them, they hate unresolved misunderstandings while the narcissist loves to mock through confusion.
Confusion causes problems, but clarity and honesty clears them up.
John 16:13
"When the Spirit of truth comes, he will guide you into all the truth, for he will not speak on his own authority, but whatever he hears he will speak, and he will declare to you the things that are to come."
God loves truth and honesty, which requires openness and discussion.
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