Narcissists interpret events based on how they feel about a person, if they like them because the person elevates them, they are all good. If they dislike you everything you do and say is wrong and foolish.
It is not enough for the narcissist to personally hate you, they must make sure others hate you too. If they are vulnerable narcissists who worry about how people think of them they will frame their gossip as concern for you. Overt narcissists will clearly state their beliefs about you without knowing the facts. All narcissists want more than anything to bring you down to elevate themselves and always with the help of their flying monkeys who also do not know the facts but enjoy the gossip.
Proverbs 20:19: "Do not associate with a gossip"
Romans 1:29
"29 people having been filled with all unrighteousness, wickedness, greed, and evil; full of envy, murder, strife, deceit, and malice; they are gossips,"
2 Corinthians 12:20
"20 For I am afraid that perhaps when I come I may find you to be not what I wish, and may be found by you to be not what you wish; that perhaps there will be strife, jealousy, angry tempers, selfishness, slanders, gossip, arrogance, disturbances;"
In short, God hates gossip, especially those who attempt to destroy the peace and reputation of believers.
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