Beware of the flying monkeys of the narcissist. In recent years I heard from a flying monkey who came on behalf of the narcissist to accuse me of things this person knew nothing about except the false testimonies of the narcissist.
One of the tactics of the narcissist is to send a flying monkey to pretend to be your buddy while asking questions to draw out thoughts against their narcissist friend. This kind of drama is common with narcissists and their flying monkeys. They cannot exist without drama and hatred.
When the flying monkey has extracted information, no matter how innocent, they will return to the narcissist to report all the mean things you said, even when you said no mean things. They are on a mission to attack you on behalf of the narcissist while at the same time fueling the contempt of the narcissist toward you further.
Beware to be drawn in by their over-the-top friendliness if you know they are close friends with the narcissist. These flying monkeys love their gossip, targets to demean, and their sense of power over having information. Know that they never have accurate information, it's all based on their feelings and the false testimony of the narcissist.
I know this tactic well personally because of all the narcissists I have encountered in my life. In the old days these people might be called "double agents", they work one side against another pretending to be an ally of each side. No one actually knows which side they are really on because they are pretending constantly.
When they see they cannot influence you to come over to their side they will attack you through every means they have available to them. The wise thing to do is to block them from everything.
When we encounter people like this we must remove them from our lives, they will cause nothing but problems with their attempt to convince others against us. They will take very small matters and blow them up into monstrous things to impress the narcissist.
Once you find out someone is a flying monkey it is best to remove them from your life, they cannot be reasoned with. Any attempt to reason with them will be met with arguing, lying, and mocking. The devil is behind all this as he twists the mind of those who love their gossip.
Narcissists are liars and so are flying monkeys. We know who the father of lies is, it is the devil and he seeks to destroy relationships just as he did in the garden with Eve. He worked to turn Eve against God by getting her to distrust God. He convinced Eve that she could be like God and that she didn't have to listen to Him, she could do as she pleased.
John 8:44
"44 You are of your father the devil, and you want to do the desires of your father. He was a murderer from the beginning and does not stand in the truth because there is no truth in him. Whenever he tells a lie, he speaks from his own nature, because he is a liar and the father of lies."
1 Peter 5:8 "Be of sober spirit, be on the alert. Your adversary, the devil, prowls around like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour."
The devil is working hard in these end times to turn families and friends against the born again believer. He uses many tactics but he also believes if he removes the love of people from our lives we will become weak and unable to obey Him.
The devil does not know that the born again believer who is guided by the Holy Spirit does not need people to feel validated or loves. We have the Holy Spirit Who provides all that we need even if we have no one else who comes alongside us.
Micah 6:8
"He has told you, O man, what is good; and what does the Lord require of you but to do justice, and to love kindness, and to walk humbly with your God?"
Isaiah 41:10
"Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God; I will strengthen you, I will help you, I will uphold you with my righteous right hand."
Amos 3:3
“Do two walk together, unless they have agreed to meet?"
1 John 2:6
"Whoever says he abides in him ought to walk in the same way in which he walked."
Romans 12:2
"Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect."
In these end times, it will be hard to find many people who love the Lord, or who are authentically born again believers. We are living in times similar to those of Noah's day. When everyone does what is right according to their own base human standard and not according to the Bible.
There are far more pretenders in the church now than born again believers, we can expect to be mocked and rejected by many who say they are Christians but have no interest in obeying God's Word the Bible.
Matthew 15:7-9 "…7 You hypocrites! Isaiah prophesied correctly about you: 8 ‘These people honor Me with their lips, but their hearts are far from Me. 9 They worship Me in vain; they teach as doctrine the precepts of men.’ ”…"
This is the state of the church in these last days before Christ takes out His church. We need not be alarmed by this, it is prophesied in His Word to help us detach from the world and carry on for Him.
Isaiah 29:13-14 "13 Therefore the Lord said: “These people draw near to Me with their mouths and honor Me with their lips, but their hearts are far from Me. Their worship of Me is but rules taught by men. 14 Therefore I will again confound these people with wonder upon wonder. The wisdom of the wise will vanish, and the intelligence of the intelligent will be hidden.”…"
God is revealing the truth to born again believers, they see and sense things most people cannot understand.
The pretenders do not understand, they live superficially based on their feelings or physical senses without the enlightening of the Holy Spirit. They cannot understand, they argue what they do not know and despise anyone who does understand. Expect this, do not let it motivate your actions or reactions. Stay to the Word, be led by the Holy Spirit, and move on to wherever God takes you.
When we are led by the Holy Spirit we will be under attack by the devil and the people he uses.
We do not have to be controlled by the devils minions, his flying monkeys, we can be controlled, steady, and joyfully by the Holy Spirit.
Hallelujah!!!!
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