A dear Christian man came to visit us and brought this dictionary definition. I thought it was very interesting because it shows us how much our culture has changed over the years.
Discernment used to tell us who should be given needs and who should not. Just giving to give is not a virtue, sometimes it can be foolish when it is enabling someone to be lazy.
"SPUG" is the Society for the Prevention of Useless Giving."
I thought his was appropriate for our time in which people give without a thought to whether that giving is helpful or necessary.
I am not a fan of the food drives that I see so often. These food drives do not operate with any level of accountability. They pass out food to anyone who comes to fill a bag, even those who have plenty of food at home, even those who have food stamps and welfare checks every month.
When our giving is nothing more than to make ourselves feel special, we have lost the heart of giving.
Giving in the past was for the purpose of actually helping someone who needed help. It was done anonymously, without praise and glory and to those who demonstrated a good measure of ethical hardworking mentality, when their trials were not of their own making.
Those who refuse to get off drugs, who spend their money on alcohol and those who waste it on cigarettes as well as cable tv and cell phones who use them only for playing, should not be receiving extra food.
I have known people who waste the money they do get on foolishness and then expect others to pay their bills because the money ran out before the bills got paid.
We have a lot of money in this country, but with it comes the urge to flaunt it by giving even when it is unnecessary. When someone has made their own poverty by refusing to be trained in a job or taking the steps to get themselves cleaned up, they should not be rewarded for their choices.
When someone becomes so destitute from the sin they wallow in, they are more likely to reach out to God for their help. When they do reach out to Him, He will answer their prayer, but it won't be free stuff. God will give a person a job when they want one. He will make them start at the bottom to learn how to humbly accept the consequences of their choices. Then over time as they are diligent in their quest to be righteous and diligent, God will move them up the ladder, allowing more money and the respect of the community.
The key to everything is turning to Christ to be cleansed, accepting His will for us even in meager means. God has a purpose in allowing us to start at the bottom to work our way up. We must first accept our lower rank before He will bless us with a higher one.
There is far more blessing in knowing we worked hard, were diligent and made it by trusting Christ, than there is in wallowing in pity and begging others to rescue us. There will be kind people along the way who will help, but not by giving, by showing the way to work.
There is a saying we have all heard over the years. I don't know who said it but it makes a very good point, that is:
"give a man a fish and he eats for a day, teach a man to fish and he eats for a lifetime."
Think next time you are tempted to give that drug addict a dollar, he may be going to spend it on drugs when enough of you have piled up the dollars.
Love does not look very much like what most people think today. Love is showing the hard but productive path. Love is speaking the truth that will cause movement in the direction of deep change within those who have been treated softly for so many years.
How does that saying go? OH YES....."no pain no gain", it doesn't just work for athletes, it works in life too.
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