Since I know certain people will not listen to anything I say, sometimes I have to do as Nathan Did with David. Telling a story about a person, not naming names and allowing the hearer to see themselves in it can be more effective than calling them straight out.
Remember too that if someone is angry because they see themselves in your story is the evidence that what you are saying is true. If they were not guilty of what you told in the story then they would agree or look perplext. Their anger gives them away.
2 Samuel 12:1-14 "12 Then the Lord sent Nathan to David. And he came to him and said,
“There were two men in a city, the one wealthy and the other poor.
2 The wealthy man had a great many flocks and herds.
3 But the poor man had nothing at all except one little ewe lamb
Which he bought and nurtured;
And it grew up together with him and his children.
It would eat scraps from him and drink from his cup and lie in his lap,
And was like a daughter to him.
4 Now a visitor came to the wealthy man,
And he could not bring himself to take any animal from his own flock or his own herd,
To prepare for the traveler who had come to him;
So he took the poor man’s ewe lamb and prepared it for the man who had come to him.”
5 Then David’s anger burned greatly against the man, and he said to Nathan, “As the Lord lives, the man who has done this certainly deserves to die!
6 So he must make restitution for the lamb four times over, since he did this thing and had no compassion.”
7 Nathan then said to David, “You yourself are the man! This is what the Lord, the God of Israel says: ‘It is I who anointed you as king over Israel, and it is I who rescued you from the hand of Saul.
8 I also gave you your master’s house and put your master’s wives into your care, and I gave you the house of Israel and Judah; and if that had been too little, I would have added to you many more things like these!
9 Why have you despised the word of the Lord, by doing evil in His sight? You have struck and killed Uriah the Hittite with the sword, you have taken his wife as your wife, and you have slaughtered him with the sword of the sons of Ammon.
10 Now then, the sword shall never leave your house, because you have despised Me and have taken the wife of Uriah the Hittite to be your wife.’
11 This is what the Lord says: ‘Behold, I am going to raise up evil against you from your own household; I will even take your wives before your eyes and give them to your companion, and he will sleep with your wives in broad daylight.
12 Indeed, you did it secretly, but I will do this thing before all Israel, and in open daylight.’”
13 Then David said to Nathan, “I have sinned against the Lord.” And Nathan said to David, “The Lord also has allowed your sin to pass; you shall not die.
14 However, since by this deed you have shown utter disrespect for the Lord, the child himself who is born to you shall certainly die.”
15 Then Nathan went to his house."
The wonderful thing about this story was David's repentance. When we see similar things happening and those who hear their own stories repeated to them refuse to repent, even become angry that their sin was called out deserve the anger of the Lord and will be punished if they do not repent.
May we always be searching our hearts to be able to confess the flaws and sins to be cleansed by God.
1 John 1:9
"9 If we confess our sins, He is faithful and righteous, so that He will forgive us our sins and cleanse us from all unrighteousness."
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