It might be easier to avoid a nasty person,even when we miss them, than it is to tolerate their abuse on a regular basis.
Perhaps we are more concerned about what we "think" we are missing, when in fact we are missing nothing at all. We love our "idea" of what "could be", but isn't .
Sometimes we romanticize someone or some event as though it will be the dream we have enjoyed in our heads. When reality sets in, we see that it would not at all be what we had hoped for, but would bring more heartache.
Just a thought! Next time we feel that sense of loss of someone who devalues us, perhaps we could remember what it was really like and be brought back to reality. Then we can enjoy our peace and freedom from continual conflict.
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