Self reflection is at the core of every believers life. When we have trusted Christ, evaluating what we do and say is common and expected for spiritual and emotional growth.
Believers should not fear self reflection but desire it, pondering our attitudes and actions according to the Word of God is desired by the authentic believer, we want to please God more than we care what others think of us. A false persona, continual hiding and pretense is not the lifestyle of the authentic believer.
Those that cannot evaluate themselves, out of fear of finding out they are not perfect, can never be born again, nor can they grow past infancy in their lives as a whole. Their responses to life remain child like, always about self and lacking in discernment.
Because of this aversion to self reflection they cannot engage in honest and open communication. Everything is a competition and must be met with hostility if it does not elevate them. The hostility is the response of immaturity on the part of someone who must discredit anyone who may expose a need for change in their lives.
Those who are focused more on status and appearances, often indulge themselves in narcissism. It's what drives them every day all day, their's is a miserable and unsatisfied existence.
In Christ we have no need to "appear" anything, our continual bent is to please God, honor and obey Him as we are led by the Holy Spirit.
If anyone is attempting to "do" their Christianity in their own flesh, they must stop that and begin to "be" controlled by the Holy Spirit, dropping all pretense and fakery, requiring openness and honesty about themselves while desiring to understand others.
When we are "being" in Christ, the doing will follow, but if we are only "doing" then it is fleshly and self focused rather than Christ centered.
2 Corinthians 13:5 " 5 Examine yourselves to see whether you are in the faith; test yourselves. Can’t you see for yourselves that Jesus Christ is in you — unless you actually fail the test? 6 And I hope you will realize that we have not failed the test.…"
Psalm 119:59
"I considered my ways And turned my feet to Your testimonies."
Jeremiah 31:19
"'For after I turned back, I repented; And after I was instructed, I smote on my thigh; I was ashamed and also humiliated Because I bore the reproach of my youth.'"
Lamentations 3:40
"Let us examine and probe our ways, And let us return to the LORD."
Ezekiel 18:27-28
"Again, when a wicked man turns away from his wickedness which he has committed and practices justice and righteousness, he will save his life. "Because he considered and turned away from all his transgressions which he had committed, he shall surely live; he shall not die."
Haggai 1:5-7
"Now therefore, thus says the LORD of hosts, "Consider your ways! "You have sown much, but harvest little; you eat, but there is not enough to be satisfied; you drink, but there is not enough to become drunk; you put on clothing, but no one is warm enough; and he who earns, earns wages to put into a purse with holes." Thus says the LORD of hosts, "Consider your ways!"
1 Corinthians 11:27-31
"Therefore whoever eats the bread or drinks the cup of the Lord in an unworthy manner, shall be guilty of the body and the blood of the Lord. But a man must examine himself, and in so doing he is to eat of the bread and drink of the cup. For he who eats and drinks, eats and drinks judgment to himself if he does not judge the body rightly. For this reason many among you are weak and sick, and a number sleep. But if we judged ourselves rightly, we would not be judged."
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