Monday, April 14, 2025

The Bondage of Herd Mentality

"Herd Mentality", are those who are trapped in the fear of losing the love of others. Their need to be liked dibilitates them.
 
Living under the expectations of others is bondage as much as if their ankle were tethered to hitching rings used for horses.
 
The need for approval from others keeps people enslaved to the dictates of those they wish to impress.

It is strength when we have no need to convince others to think like us. Those who cannot love others who don't think like them are very weak and barely able to stand alone, they must have allies to keep from falling over like a scarecrow without a pole to hold it up.
 
Those who join cults are of this sort, they isolate themselves to make sure they always have people around who will fawn over their every word and follow them like baby chicks crossing a road with their mother.
 
Often those who think for themselves will be ridiculed, dismissed, and excluded for their separateness from the rest of the culture.
 
2 Corinthians 6:17
"17 Therefore, come out from their midst and be separate,” says the Lord. “And do not touch what is unclean;
And I will welcome you."

Those who are a part of the cult will be so intimidated by the one who thinks with the mind of Christ that they will gossip to others hoping to gain supporters for themselves with an even greater hope that others will follow them in the rejection of the free thinker.
 
The cult is tethered to one another unable to grow in wisdom for their continual striving to be like one another. I have met many of these people in my life and one thing that stands out is the conspicuous lack of individual personality of each member. The personality God gave them has been replaced by the expectations of all the other members.
 
Those who must surround themselves with others who validate their rebellion believe the free-thinkers in Christ will feel spurned leading them into anxiety and depression. The cult followers believe this because if it were happening to them they would be depressed and full of fear. But this is not the case for the one who follows Christ. We are content and joyful walking alone on the narrow road, completely joyful and content.
 
Philippians 4:11-13
"11 Not that I speak from need, for I have learned to be content in whatever circumstances I am.
12 I know how to get along with little, and I also know how to live in prosperity; in any and every circumstance I have learned the secret of being filled and going hungry, both of having abundance and suffering need.
13 I can do all things through Him who strengthens me."

When we meet another Christ-follower our joy is increased, we do not need them all the time because Christ in them is also in us and we know that one day we will be reunited again. We are satisfied for the Lord to bring them alongside from time to time as we edify and encourage one another on our path. We walk the same path, just not everyone is in the same place on the road.
 
Romans 12:10 "Love one another with brotherly affection. Outdo one another in showing honor."

Our brethren are in our hearts all the time even when we are not with them in body.
 
Ephesians 4:2 "With all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another in love,"

Galatians 5:1: "It is for freedom that Christ has set us free. Stand firm, then, and do not let yourselves be burdened again by a yoke of slavery."

The greatest test of our faith is when we have to walk alone for a time trusting only in Christ, our joy excels because He is the One we trust every moment.
 
When Christ is in us we are never alone and we are connected Spiritually with every other follower of Christ.

Foolish People and Foolish Cultures

The most foolish cultures are those that walk in lockstep with everyone else around them. They lose the ability to think independently from others.

The strongest and most intelligent people are those who can think rationally and reasonably while evaluating things according to truth and not according to the opinions or views of others around them.

Proverbs 18:2 "A fool takes no pleasure in understanding, but only in expressing his opinion"

The opinions of fools are never based on evaluating things with a determination to find the truth, they are based on how he will look to others and whether or not he will be accepted in the community of his choice.

A wise person thinks with the mind of Christ basing their evaluations on the truth.

Proverbs 1:7 "The fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge; fools despise wisdom and instruction."

We are walking among the unwise every day as we navigate through a culture that is predisposed to resisting God. Sadly many of these people who resist wisdom are those who attend apostate churches operating as religions and not according to God's Word.

Proverbs 18:6 "A fool's lips walk into a fight, and his mouth invites a beating."

Proverbs 29:9 "If a wise man has an argument with a fool, the fool only rages and laughs, and there is no quiet."

"Religion" is not Christianity, Christ despised religion while abolishing its effects on those who would trust in Him.

Religion is nothing more than rules and regulations to keep people trapped in human wisdom depending on themselves to be accepted by those in their group of choice.

When we become born again we depend on one Person only, that is the Person of Jesus Christ Who is our King and our God.

We love people but we do not place our trust in them, our trust is in Christ alone. Our love is not transactional it is relational, seeking to be an asset to those we love while including them in our lives as we work together to honor and serve Christ.

Proverbs 28:26 "Whoever trusts in his own mind is a fool, but he who walks in wisdom will be delivered."

Proverbs 10:23 "Doing wrong is like a joke to a fool, but wisdom is pleasure to a man of understanding."

Those who are wise enjoy and embrace counsel from wise people. The fool hates counsel from those who have the wisdom of Christ.

The Theory of SOCIETAL STUPIDITY | By Dietrich Bonhoeffer

The Foolish Lies in the Culture and Even in the Church

It is astounding to me how many people believe foolish things like "flat earth" and other things they have no way of vetting. They are childishly believing fantasies that cannot be proven.

O.K. let's say some of it is true, which I do not believe, now what? Do those who claim these things alter their lives in some way because of what they believe? No, it is all just talk to appear as though they have special knowledge.
 
The search for special knowledge is rooted in pride, it is Gnosticism. Would those who believe these outlandish things have thought it up all by themselves? NO, they had to read the lies and concoctions of others who love to deceive others, to find them. They had to go looking for the lies, they saw nothing personally in their own lives that led them to their false assumptions.
 
These are the same people who read those tabloid newspapers at the checkout stand when I was a child. Back in the day, the readership was small and dedicated to sensationalism that most rational people paid no attention to and even mocked because they knew it was foolishness. Now we have these tabloids on the internet hoodwinking the simple-minded who thrive on fantasy thinking.
 
I suggest they are wasting their time and distracting others from the essential things of the gospel and interpersonal relationships as commanded by Christ in the Bible.
There are more lies now within the Christian culture than there is truth. The only way to avoid this nonsense is to remain fully immersed in the Bible while asking the Holy Spirit to fill you with His truth.
 
Proverbs 3:5-6
"5 Trust in the Lord with all your heart
And do not lean on your own understanding.
6 In all your ways acknowledge Him,
And He will make your paths straight."

Do not allow your heart to be diverted from Christ through human wisdom and fantasy thinking.

Saturday, April 12, 2025

What Is This Love?

Assumptions About the Blind Man

John 9:1-12
Healing the Man Born Blind
1 As Jesus passed by, He saw a man who had been blind from birth. 2 And His disciples asked Him, “Rabbi, who sinned, this man or his parents, that he would be born blind?”
3 Jesus answered, “It was neither that this man sinned, nor his parents; but it was so that the works of God might be displayed in him.
4 We must carry out the works of Him who sent Me as long as it is day; night is coming, when no one can work.
5 While I am in the world, I am the Light of the world.”
6 When He had said this, He spit on the ground, and made mud from the saliva, and applied the mud to his eyes,
7 and said to him, “Go, wash in the pool of Siloam” (which is translated, Sent). So he left and washed, and came back seeing.
8 So the neighbors, and those who previously saw him as a beggar, were saying, “Is this not the one who used to sit and beg?”
9 Others were saying, “This is he,” still others were saying, “No, but he is like him.” The man himself kept saying, “I am the one.”
10 So they were saying to him, “How then were your eyes opened?” 11 He answered, “The Man who is called Jesus made mud, and spread it on my eyes, and said to me, ‘Go to Siloam and wash’; so I went away and washed, and I received sight.”
12 And they said to him, “Where is He?” He *said, “I do not know.”"

This is an interesting story because God did not make mud for every blind man and tell them to go to the water and wash it away to see again. Jesus Christ did this for one man, it was for him alone to show the power of God.

It was not the mud that made the man see, it was Christ, He used the act of obedience in faith by the man to heal him. What if the man had been given the mud on his eyes by Christ and didn't obey to go wash in the water at Siloam, he probably would not have been healed because it was in obedience that he was healed.

Often people see a miracle for one person and think if they do the same thing it will work for them. They are placing their trust in the mud and the washing and not in Christ.
 
It is common in our day for people to read an event in scripture that happened to others and use that occurrence as a mantra or ritual thinking the same thing should happen to them. God gives specific actions to specific people so that they will demonstrate faith in Him, not in the act itself.
 
Notice too that the assumption of some people was that the man who was born blind must have sinned or that his parents must have sinned because of his blindness. To assume someone is sick as a punishment of God is prideful and superior acting because if we believe that person was sick because they had sinned, then perhaps these people think they are not sick because they have not sinned.
 
I have known many people who were sinful and very healthy. I have also known people who were ill all their lives but loved the Lord with all their hearts.
 
Making assumptions about other people based on things that were not their fault is arrogant and presumptuous. This is the sort of judging God told us not to do.
 
If a person has been taking illegal drugs and died from an overdose we know that their sin killed them. This is different from those who were living righteously and came down with an illness that had nothing to do with their actions.
 
The problem of focusing on the lives of others to guess what may be happening is that it takes the focus off of our own character and heart which may need some serious adjustment.
 
When we ask God to clean up our flaws, bad habits in attitude, and destructive actions toward others, we will not be judging little things that happen to others.
 
Matthew 7:3-5
"3 Why do you look at the speck that is in your brother’s eye, but do not notice the log that is in your own eye?
4 Or how can you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ and look, the log is in your own eye?
5 You hypocrite, first take the log out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to take the [d]speck out of your brother’s eye!"

When we pay close attention to our own habits and attitudes through prayer to be cleansed we will be growing in holiness and less likely to try to figure out what others have done wrong when no sin is obvious in their lives.
 
Those who are looking for specs in the eyes of others will excuse their own logs. They will assume something is wrong with what others said and did that was not wrong at all, but innocent and even righteous. These people make problems where there are no problems and become enraged when someone rebukes them for it.

Those who love the Lord do not spend their time evaluating the small matters of others to find a problem. We are discerning when there is a real problem but do not notice or judge things that have nothing to do with sin and nothing to do with us.
Those who judge others to find problems so they can elevate themselves as superior are often wrong. There is a dishonest disrespect for others merely to justify their haughtiness.
 
I once knew of a family in our neighborhood growing up who were constant trouble to everyone. They made "big deals" out of small and even innocent matters and then gossiped to others about them. They assumed things that they never saw for themselves and passed it to others as though those things were facts. Worse than that they made up lies based on how they wanted to feel about those they didn't like and spread those lies to others.
 
Satan did this in the garden with Eve. He told her God was lying to her and that she would not die if she ate the fruit. He turned Eve against the very God Who created her, causing her to distrust God and follow the lies of the devil.
 
We are living in a world full of liars and those who listen to them. The liars convince themselves the lies are true a form of self-brain washing, allowing them to feel better than others.
 
Satan wanted to be superior to God and when he couldn't do it he began turning others against God too, the very same tactic that many people use today in interpersonal relationships.
 
There is only one thing to do when we encounter these liars and minions of the devil is to get away from them and refuse to listen to their gossip.
 
Proverbs 20:19 – “He who goes about as a slanderer reveals secrets, therefore do not associate with a gossip.”

A possible good response to a gossip might be; "I have no evidence of that myself so I will have to dismiss it.
 
I have seen churchgoers reject someone because of what they were told that they did not see for themselves based on what their "friends" told them. These churchgoers had no evidence of their own only the word of the person they liked. This is evil and the word of Satan.

Proverbs. 17:9a - “He who covers a transgression seeks love, but he who repeats a matter separates intimate friends.”

I have also seen people reject a person for past forgiven sins repeated to them by others when the sin had been repented of and is no longer occurring.
 
Passing on a sin of someone knowing the sin had been dealt with and forgiven by God is the same thing the devil does in accusing the brethren. Those who do this are being used by the devil to ruin someone else without a reason except to elevate themselves.
 
As believers we hate sin and we hate gossip. We do not treat people disrespectfully because of something we have heard.
 
Romans 12:2 "And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may prove what is that good and acceptable and perfect will of God."
 
It is not gossip to tell a trusted friend about something that happened to us, however, just because something happened to us does not mean there is a need for others to know.

To pass on things to others who have no need to know it is sometimes an attempt to gain allies.
 
Proverbs 17:9 "Whoever covers an offense seeks love, but he who repeats a matter separates close friends."
 
The devil attempted and succeeded in separating Eve from God with his lies. And, many people gossip to separate others from the ones they despise. Where is the love in this?
 
1 Corinthians 13:4-8a
"4 Love is patient, love is kind, it is not jealous; love does not brag, it is not arrogant.
5 It does not act disgracefully, it does not seek its own benefit; it is not provoked, does not keep an account of a wrong suffered,
6 it does not rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; 7 it keeps every confidence, it believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. 8 Love never fails; "