How Narcissists think:
All narcissists must have the right to express their opinion but rage when we speak ours if it differs with theirs.
It is important to remember this, because if the narc rages, it is not because we did anything worthy of rage, it is merely a tactic to unnerve their target. In their minds they have won if they have managed to intimidate and silence their target.
Liberalism is this kind of animal, pushing their ideas down our throats through punitive actions and laws. They freely say anything they want but are completely intolerant of an apposing viewpoint.
They accuse their opponents of doing what they are doing but their opponents are not, lying is completely acceptable to these types.
This tactic of overt intimidation through calculated rage is common in families. Many years ago it was considered rude and very few people would do it, there was a measure of respect for a person even if we disagreed on something. Now, almost all disagreement is met with hate and verbal violence.
We are living in an age where bad is good and good is bad, as the scripture describes a condition of the end times.
If we are informed, equipped with knowledge and the help of the Holy Spirit we can remain calm, emotionally unaffected by the attacks and strong enough to clearly state our views without wavering.
When we are not taking anything personally knowing that we are fighting against a spiritual enemy not a physical one, we will not feel compelled to defend ourselves, let God do that while we peacefully and unexcitedly speak no matter what the reaction.
What a tranquility comes over us when we don't have to "win" as the narc believes they have to do. Our mission is to speak truth in love, while the narc is a mass of upturned soul, we ought to feel sorry for them, they have to work hard to keep in top position in their own minds. They depend on others cooperating and validating them. As a believer, we don't have to impress anyone, we merely trust Christ and leave Him with the results.
Praise the Lord that we don't have to be special or top man in anything, Christ is our all! Serving Him knowing we are nothing is the best place to be, we have nothing to prove for ourselves, we are free from all encumbrance of self!
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