This is a very common tactic with narcissists! There are many forms this takes, but the goal is clear and that is to devalue the target to do harm, after which the narcissist will act innocent and hurt that anyone would accuse them of their covert tactics. My goal in spending time on this is to bring healing. When we know what we are up against, we can take steps to remove ourselves while choosing healthy friends who don't play these games. Those who have the love of Christ in their hearts do not do these things. Many who claim to be "Christian" will use these tactics, they are either new believers or unsaved. A seasoned believer understands the love of God and do not do these things.
John 13:35 ""By this all men will know that you are My disciples, if you have love for one another."
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