On another thread there was a discussion about the rate of divorce and the economy. Apparently someone gave statistics to show that there are more divorces when the economy is good.
Sure there are more divorces when the economy is good because splitting and making it financially is easier.
Not to mention in our day when women have left the home to make money they have considered that money their own. The man puts his earnings into the family kitty while the wife does not. This is often the case.
I have made some money over the years from my home, anything I made went into the family coffers just like my husbands earnings. What's his is mine and whats mine is his. That's how it works when two people become one in marriage.
When we become one in marriage, all aspects of life should be shared by one another. We do not do everything together but we work together for the household. If my husband is suffering I suffer with him. If he is prosperous we are thankful together. We share the decisions as well as everything else.
No one in the relationship in marriage should get all they want while the other has no choice in it. It is narcissistic to expect one party to make all the decisions and the other to trail along like a puppy dog without needs.
Sorry if this makes some control freaks mad, truth is truth. If you are controlling all things without seeking your spouses input and desires, then you are selfish and unbiblical. Man had a rip taken from his side, not the bottom of his foot.
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