Leveraging Others to Harm their Target

Whenever someone uses others as leverage to intimidate us we can be sure we are being gaslit.

In my experience, narcissists often act or speak as though everyone else thinks the way they do about us.

They want us to believe everyone is against us because they cannot develop a rational conversation to work out an issue, so they attempt to sidetrack us into emotional hurt so we will give up and believe their lies, this allows them to feel they have won the conversation, thus nothing is resolved.

When we see narcissistic tactics being used without remorse or confession of wrong we must remove these people from our lives. Nothing good will be accomplished in conversation with them, only harm will come to us and they will feel elevated and powerful.

Proverbs 29:8-10 "…8Mockers inflame a city, but the wise turn away anger. 9 If a wise man goes to court with a fool, there will be raving and laughing with no resolution. 10 Men of bloodshed hate a blameless man, but the upright care for his life.…"

God calls hatred the same as murder. There is bloodshed in the hearts of those who manipulate, mock, and demean while lying to accomplish all of this. These are murderers at heart, without repentance they will not receive forgiveness nor will anything be resolved.

God says in 2 Timothy 3:1-5 "get away from such people."