Thursday, July 24, 2025

Under Bondage to Another Boss or Be the Boss Yourself

Years ago, men wanted their wives to stay home. Because women insisted on having their own money separate from the family money, they influenced the men to want it too, for the extra income.
 
This has led to emotional independence from one another. The two God made to be one have become divided in purpose. Dividing the household instead of uniting it has been the result, and subsequently, an increase in divorce.

God made the man and woman to have a united purpose, their roles were different, but the good of the family was the goal. Neither calling was less than the other, just different and unique.
 
In each role, the woman at home "holding down the home front" and the man as the wage earner in the workforce. When the woman did her job well using the household money to care for the needs of the household, she ultimately allowed for the husband to focus on his calling, that is, providing financially to the household income.
 
When each one was fully focused on their calling, it led to greater prosperity and stability for all family members.
 
The woman is better suited to running her household as she is the boss, while the husband provides for the running of that household. When each one performs their role as God intended the family is more stable, prosperous, and happy than it is today in the broken homes in which the roles of the genders have been blurred and even obliterated, utterly destroyed.
 
Satan managed to do with modern women what he did in the garden with Eve, that is convince them that God didn't know what He was doing and even meant them harm.
 
Women have always had the ability to create things to sell, buy a field and sell it for profit, but this did not take them away from their primary role as the managers of the home.
 
Women ruined their calling that kept them fulfilled and safe, for a career outside the home, full of problems and bosses over them. They placed themselves in more bondage than if they had remained their own boss at home.
 
The woman in the home does more than care for every need of her family; she also volunteers and is a companion of other women who share her values.
 
Read Proverbs 31 and discover how diverse and fulfilled a woman's life can be when done God's way. I know because I have followed this model for over 50 years now and have never been bored or lonely. Managing a home is a huge job if done with enthusiasm and creativity.
 
Ladies, don't ever let a feminist persuade you that you have no purpose unless you are working under a boss getting a paycheck; this is Satan's lie and full of pitfalls and bondage.

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