Thursday, August 21, 2014

No Pain No Gain?

There is something that my husband brought up this morning that was very interesting to me. He said, "when people speak of the account of the prodigal son in Scripture, they always speak on only one son and sometimes both sons, but they do not speak about the father."

He was right, we almost never speak of the father, who is a picture of God, the sons are pictures of humanity, but the father is a type of God, in the Word of God.

The elder son had problems with obeying the father without loving him and the younger son disobeyed because of his lack of love for the father. Both did not love their father, one obeyed and one did not obey. Both did not love the father.

God deals with His children in the most loving terms possible. God offers forgiveness and salvation to mankind, but does not force them. He does not contend with them, He give them a choice and then lets them make it, either for or against Him.

In the account of the prodigal son, the father gave the younger son what he wanted and let him go. The father allowed the son to experience the hard consequences of his own choices without the father's presence. The father never ran after the son, begging and urging him to stop his carousing or wicked lifestyle, nor did he rush to give him money when he ran out of it. The father remained absent from the son during his time of rebellion. He allowed his son to wallow in the pig pen, scrounging for his food, until the son was ready to confess his sin and turn from it.

When the son confessed and returned, determined to be content to be treated as a servant, then the father knew the son was truly changed. The son left wanting his own way, lazy and bent on revelries, desiring riches to waste and came back broken, wanting to be in the father's house again even if it meant as a servant.

God deals with us the same way. He loves us too much to rescue us before the lesson is learned. Sometimes He takes our children far away from us to spare us the agony of watching them ruin their lives, while we remain at home, waiting and praying for the day our children will see their filthiness and desire to return home a different person than they were when they left.

Do we have the strength to love our children more than we love their companionship, Do we love them more than we love our own comfort and protection?

God's ways are best, sometimes they seem harsh, but they are loving. There is a saying that I have heard many times over the years in relation to physical exercise, it goes like this; "no pain no gain."

Why is it that we can see that pain is necessary in physical health, surgery to fix a broken organ or exercise to build muscles, but cannot see the need for pain in spiritual matters.

James 1:2-18
"2 My brethren, count it all joy when you fall into various trials,
3 knowing that the testing of your faith produces patience.
4 But let patience have its perfect work, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking nothing.
5 If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach, and it will be given to him.
6 But let him ask in faith, with no doubting, for he who doubts is like a wave of the sea driven and tossed by the wind. For let not that man suppose that he will receive anything from the Lord;
8 he is a double-minded man, unstable in all his ways.
9 Let the lowly brother glory in his exaltation,
10 but the rich in his humiliation, because as a flower of the field he will pass away.
11 For no sooner has the sun risen with a burning heat than it withers the grass; its flower falls, and its beautiful appearance perishes. So the rich man also will fade away in his pursuits.
12 Blessed is the man who endures temptation; for when he has been approved, he will receive the crown of life which the Lord has promised to those who love Him.
13 Let no one say when he is tempted, “I am tempted by God”; for God cannot be tempted by evil, nor does He Himself tempt anyone.
14 But each one is tempted when he is drawn away by his own desires and enticed.
15 Then, when desire has conceived, it gives birth to sin; and sin, when it is full-grown, brings forth death.
16 Do not be deceived, my beloved brethren.
17 Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, and comes down from the Father of lights, with whom there is no variation or shadow of turning.
18 Of His own will He brought us forth by the word of truth, that we might be a kind of firstfruits of His creatures."

Wednesday, August 20, 2014

Fulfillment Only Comes With Honor

Jeremiah 15:10 New King James Version (NKJV)

Jeremiah’s Dejection
"10 Woe is me, my mother,
That you have borne me,
A man of strife and a man of contention to the whole earth!
I have neither lent for interest,
Nor have men lent to me for interest.
Every one of them curses me."

When we do things God's way, we will be maligned, reviled and cursed for it.

We could give away all our money to the poor and become like them, they no longer would be our friends, because we would have nothing to give them.

I have known many people who get themselves into debt, wasting the borrowed resources on foolishness with nothing to show for it, when their resources are exhausted they go to others asking to be bailed out of the trouble of their own making.

It is easy to get welfare these days, many who do not want to work seem to be able to get "disability", when people in their condition used to work at something, even as a disabled person. The excuse of disability is growing because the sense of honor is lacking in those who would rather have a free ride than maintain their own dignity by earning what they receive.

They waste what they have acquired from the taxes paid by others, and then come to ask for more money to be able to waste further.

I have received phone calls from people asking for their electric bills and rent to be paid because they ran out of money at the end of the month. They didn't have enough food in their kitchens nor did they have enough to feed their children.

When asked where their money went they would say they just don't get enough. After hearing all their troubles, I ask a few questions to clarify whether or not they are using the money they have wisely. Sometimes I would ask how much money they get and they don't want to tell me. I am more interested in helping them learn to wisely use their resources than handing out money.

My questions begin with, "do you smoke", the answer is always yes. "Do you have a cell phone", the answer again is yes. I ask them if they drink or buy lottery tickets, often the answer is yes. In conversation with these people I discover that they have internet, cable television, throw lavish birthday parties for their children with cakes from the store, expensive gifts for the birthday and even Christmas, while taking trips to see relatives out of town on trains and buses.

In a nut shell, much of what the poor spend their money on are things that we budget for and only do if there is extra money after all the bills are paid.

The poor need to live much more frugally than they do. They need to cancel their internet, cable, cell phones and lavish birthday parties for family members. They need to spend only on food and rent, if anything is left over save it for a day when an emergency arises.

There is a very strange mentality in this country and that is that everyone should have whatever they want, even if they cannot afford it, and those who have enough money should pay for their play things.

There is a saying that I learned a long time ago, that made good sense during a time when every family struggled aside from the wealthy elite.

"Give a man a fish and you feed him for a day; teach a man to fish and you feed him for a lifetime." Author Unknown to me.

We are a fast food culture, it is easier to just give our resources than it is to spend some time arranging for a job. I have approached businesses in the past and asked them why they don't give the beggar outside their store, a job. The answer that came back often was, "we did, they said they don't want one."

There are legitimate poor, I understand that, but most of them are in other countries where there are very hard times and oppressive governments, but in our country, most of the poor are that way because they were lazy and/or rebellious.

Everyone can have some kind of job here, even if it is at the bottom of the ladder. The wise young people will start at the bottom doing any job they can get, do it as unto the Lord, perfomring such a good job that the boss learns to trust and rely on them. They make the boss look so good that he doesn't want to lose them, over time he likely will promote them to a better paying position. But even if he does not, remember if we are born again, then our objective is to honor God first above everything. Perhaps our boss will become saved because we honored God and treating him with respect, blessing the boss.

If we are unhappy on a job then we stay, praying for strength to act in a godly manner and pray for the Lord to provide another one. Many people leave a job they don't like before they have another one, this is not wise. Many people have to work at jobs they don't like to keep bread on the table. God can give us what we need to endure while maintaining our Christian character.

Colossians 3:23 "Whatever you do, do your work heartily, as for the Lord rather than for men,"

2 Thessalonians 3:10-12
"For even when we were with you, we would give you this command: If anyone is not willing to work, let him not eat. For we hear that some among you walk in idleness, not BUSY at work, but busybodies. Now such persons we command and encourage in the Lord Jesus Christ to do their work quietly and to earn their own living."

Philippians 4:13
"I can do all things through him who strengthens me."

Proverbs 14:23
"In all toil there is profit, but mere talk tends only to poverty."

Philippians 2:14-15
"Do all things without grumbling or questioning, that you may be blameless and innocent, children of God without blemish in the midst of a crooked and twisted generation, among whom you shine as lights in the world,"

1 Corinthians 10:21
"So, whether you eat or drink, or whatever you do, do all to the GLORY OF GOD."

Proverbs 12:24
"The hand of the diligent will rule, while the slothful will be put to forced labor."

Colossians 3:17
"And whatever you do, in word or deed, do everything in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him."

Proverbs 6:6-8
"Go to the ant, O sluggard; consider her ways, and be wise. Without having any chief, officer, or ruler, she prepares her bread in summer and gathers her food in harvest."

Luke 1:37
"For nothing will be impossible with God.”

God has commanded us to work, if we want to work He will see to it that we have something to work at. Seek His face for a job, use your resources wisely in only what is needed, forgetting all the toys and playthings, lavish food and expensive clothing, resolving to live frugally and God will bless what little you have.

We may not have all the things we desire, but we will live honorably, even being able to share what little we have to bless others. God never gives us a principle without the ability to carry it out.

Jeremiahs 29:11
"For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans for your good and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope."

Honoring the Lord is more important than keeping up with the Jones's There can be great joy in living honorably in the Lord.

Tuesday, August 19, 2014

Christ Teaches Us!

Matthew 6:24 "No man can serve two masters: for either he will hate the one, and love the other; or else he will hold to the one, and despise the other. Ye cannot serve God and mammon."

IF someone is of "Calvin" or "Armenius", then they are not of Christ. If we have trusted Christ, then He is our lead, not a man, no matter how good we think that man is, we have a false god if we adhere to his teachings over that of Christ's.

1 Corinthians 1:10-17
"10 Now I exhort you, brethren, by the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, that you all agree and that there be no divisions among you, but that you be made complete in the same mind and in the same judgment. 11 For I have been informed concerning you, my brethren, by Chloe’s people, that there are quarrels among you. 12 Now I mean this, that each one of you is saying, “I am of Paul,” and “I of Apollos,” and “I of Cephas,” and “I of Christ.” 13 Has Christ been divided? Paul was not crucified for you, was he? Or were you baptized in the name of Paul? 14 I thank God that I baptized none of you except Crispus and Gaius, 15 so that no one would say you were baptized in my name. 16 Now I did baptize also the household of Stephanas; beyond that, I do not know whether I baptized any other. 17 For Christ did not send me to baptize, but to preach the gospel, not in cleverness of speech, so that the cross of Christ would not be made void"

Everyone who is a good teacher must be evaluated in terms of Scripture, if they are wrong in what they say then we must expose it. Fame and popularity should never be a measure of a man's doctrine.

Follow Christ alone, read His Word for yourself and ask the Holy Spirit to teach you.

1 John 2:27
"As for you, the anointing which you received from Him abides in you, and you have no need for anyone to teach you; but as His anointing teaches you about all things, and is true and is not a lie, and just as it has taught you, you abide in Him."

He Even Prays On Our Behalf

Romans 8:26 "In the same way the Spirit also helps our weakness; for we do not know how to pray as we should, but the Spirit Himself intercedes for us with groanings too deep for words;"

I am so thankful that the Lord knows better than I what should be prayed! He even prays on our behalf.

High Mindedness Only Frightens Humble People Away


There are those that attempt to become so "theologically deep", that they have bought into high mindedness that makes no sense to most people listening. I believe this is an attempt to appear superior to others.

When we argue about what is a work and what is not a work, how many angels can dance on the head of a pin and other meaningless discussions that only tend to drive people further from Christ, we are entering into arrogance for only one purpose and that is to elevate self.

We do not help others come to Christ through "high mindedness", we help by simplicity, the simple Gospel message as given to us in the Word, it's not hard even a child can understand when their heart is open.

Christ is responsible for the results of our speech, we are to simply obey Him and leave all the results to Him.

Christ is the Only Way

When we disobey the Lord as a nation, we can expect the principles of God to begin to be implemented.

This passage in Jeremiah was written to Israel, but God's principles are still active in all countries.

Jeremiah 25:10-11
"Moreover I will take from them the voice of mirth and the voice of gladness, the voice of the bridegroom and the voice of the bride, the sound of the millstones and the light of the lamp. 11 And this whole land shall be a desolation and an astonishment, and these nations shall serve the king of Babylon seventy years."

When we have refused to listen to the voice of God through His Word, the Scriptures, turning to our own ways, following after our own wicked desires then God will no longer speak, He will not help us in time of trouble.

Isaiah 1:15
"So when you spread out your hands in prayer, I will hide My eyes from you; Yes, even though you multiply prayers, I will not listen. Your hands are covered with blood."

Left to ourselves, we nurture and celebrate the desires of our own wicked hearts.

Jeremiah 17:9
"The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately wicked: who can know it?"

Left to our own desires we will have temporary happiness with each new adventure, but we will not have contentment, with the everyday things of life. Our hearts become reckless, clamoring after pleasure without restraint, but void of joy and peace.

As pleasure seekers we must heap up thrills, each one more outrageous than the last to keep the sense of happiness flowing. Sadly this is true of too many believers. They want thrills in their daily lives as well as thrills even in their worship. Nothing is about God anymore, but about what is sensational, leading us to a new and enormous emotional high.

Jeremiah 25:31-32
" 31 A noise shall come even to the ends of the earth; for the Lord hath a controversy with the nations, he will plead with all flesh; he will give them that are wicked to the sword, saith the Lord.

32 Thus saith the Lord of hosts, Behold, evil shall go forth from nation to nation, and a great whirlwind shall be raised up from the coasts of the earth"

If anyone thinks the United States is going to escape the wrath of God, think again. He has turned us over to divorce and remarriage, to murders continually, abortion, same sex marriage, dishonor and disrespect for parents, narcissism, lack of manners, lack of integrity and a dishonor and disrespect for God.

Believers have concocted a god who winks at sin, while we indulge in it. This is not the God of the Bible. The God of the Bible, the One True God, does not wink at sin, nor does He allow it into His presence.

The only way that we can come into the presence of God is to become born again, washed in the blood of the only Righteous One, Christ Jesus. If we are not born again, do not have Christ living in us, we will not see God and He will not hear our prayers, save one.

The only prayer of the unsaved that God will hear is the one confessing their sin, wanting to be changed into a new creation by Christ, ready and willing to walk with Him through the help of the Holy Spirit.

This is the only answer for the unsaved wicked world. Teaching them to obey God's commandments will not save them, that will only bring them "religion" that has no value at all for salvation. A man can live a very clean life, but without Christ he will go to hell.

Isaiah 64:6 "For all of us have become like one who is unclean, And all our righteous deeds are like a filthy garment; And all of us wither like a leaf, And our iniquities, like the wind, take us away."

When we realize we are helpless, and dirty, then we can come to Christ for cleansing. No one will be able to come to Christ any other way than through total brokenness. If you were never broken and ashamed of yourself, then you never became born again.

May the Lord sink these principles deeply into the minds of those who have not yet let go of their own will, to submit to Christ.

Monday, August 18, 2014

Don't Fight Them and They Won't Harm You

I just read on a facebook friends status, of the shooting of a criminal by a police officer.  Her post was exposing the scam of some of these tiny little quips to discredit and malign the character of the officers, while lying by half truth, what really happened.

I have seen several of these videos, I call "yellow journalism" because they show a miniature minute and everyone gets excited that the "cops" are doing something evil.

I don't believe these videos, policemen are highly trained and do not want to get into trouble with wrong procedures. 

The lies that one black man told that his friend was shot in the back was despicable.

I am also tired of the media calling the criminal who was shot.....a "victim."  The police and the public are the victims of these thugs.

The lack of respect for authority is the problem here and a tribalism that places a family or people group above truth.  I was thankful that in the case of the looting and robbing that went on in protest of the criminal shooting, there were sensible blacks who came out against the looting and thievery.

I know that a choke hold would not be used on me, because if an officer approached me, I would obey his commands and be respectful. If someone is not fighting then they will not be strong armed. 

The media has been the most prejudice of all against the black community. They have portrayed the black community as volatile and unreasonable in their actions and attitudes, but what they don't show are all the other blacks that are not acting that way and don't approve of what is going on in their communities.

May we keep in mind that we should not take up offenses for others, when we were not there to see what happened.  Too often we love to take the side against authority when God has clearly told us to obey them.

Romans 13:1-7
"13 Let every soul be subject to the governing authorities. For there is no authority except from God, and the authorities that exist are appointed by God.
2 Therefore whoever resists the authority resists the ordinance of God, and those who resist will bring judgment on themselves.
3 For rulers are not a terror to good works, but to evil. Do you want to be unafraid of the authority? Do what is good, and you will have praise from the same.
4 For he is God’s minister to you for good. But if you do evil, be afraid; for he does not bear the sword in vain; for he is God’s minister, an avenger to EXECUTE wrath on him who practices evil.
5 Therefore you must be subject, not only because of wrath but also for conscience’ sake.
6 For because of this you also pay taxes, for they are God’s ministers attending CONTINUALLY to this very thing.
7 Render therefore to all their due: taxes to whom taxes are due, customs to whom customs, fear to whom fear, honor to whom honor."