Weeping With the Repentant

For those who say, "I can forgive but I cannot forget."

We cannot forget but the feelings of betrayal lose their power when we have been rightly reconciled. Anyone who says I forgive you but I can't forget is really saying "I don't forgive you." To continue to hold something over another persons head when they have repented and confessed, is a wicked person hoping to heap more guilt upon the repentant person.

If we are a humble person seeking God, our heart melts when someone confesses their sin against us. We are more likely to weep with them as they sorrow over their wrong.

Those who do not sorrow over a repentant person, walks in pride, despising the broken person with only one aim in mind and that is to hold over the head of the confessor their past, it's called bitterness and unforgiveness no matter what they may say.

Saying "I forgive but I can't forget" is a mechanism of control over another person, tantamount to kicking someone when they are down.

Same on those who use such a phrase as this to control and demean someone who is making things right. The repentant person continues to grow in holiness, while the wicked one who is hell bent on getting their pound of flesh, walks deeper into bitterness, themselves in need of repentance and confession of their own sin.

What Does Christ's Love Look Like

I know many people who run from God in conflict, in hopes that the trouble will go away by itself, if they seek God then they might find out their are at fault and in need of an attitude change.

Conflict cannot be resolved by ignoring it, it either solidifies the effect by lack of resolution or grows bitterness in someone's heart.

Pretending we have no need of working out problems, is the same as lying. Unresolved problems destroy relationships. Relationships grow stronger when two people discuss things, admit their part and ask forgiveness if they are guilty as well as forgiving if the other party is repentant.

Those who embrace the love of God want to resolve matters. It is only those who hold tight to pride and self will, who often hope the trouble will work itself out and dissipate over time. They count on acting differently to accomplish this aim without ever having to admit or change.

What these people fail to realize is that the longer an offense is ignored, the greater the chance the relationship will end. As long as there has been no admission of sin, there is always the doubt that nothing has changed and the same things will be repeated.

Confession and forgiveness is for the purpose of mending a broken relationships. Without both of these elements, there is no relationship, only superficial acquaintance without closeness is possible.

When we love God's way, and we know we have committed an offense, we are driven to admit it while seeking resolution to restore. When there is no confession there is no desire to be restored, only the need to be right for appearances sake.

Our walk with God is far deeper than appearances, we care about our spiritual integrity far more than how others will perceive us or fooling others into believing things about us.

James 5:16 "16 Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous man has great power to prevail."

There is no personal spiritual healing without confession and there is no healing of personal relationships without integrity, honesty and confession. Game playing and pretending within relationships are ruinous.

Those who love Christ love people also, with a drivenness to bless others rather than control them. There is no sense of control in the heart of one who Loves Christ and others.

John 13:34
A new commandment I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so also you must love one another.

1 John 3:13-15 "…13 So do not be surprised, brothers, if the world hates you. 14 We know that we have passed from death to life, because we love our brothers. The one who does not love remains in death. 15 Everyone who hates his brother is a murderer, and you know that eternal life does not reside in a murderer.…"

What is the evidence that someone loves? They are not in competition with others, nor do they feel a need to appear superior. Manipulating and intimidating people is not in the heart of one who has the love of Christ dwelling in them.

1 Corinthians 13:4-8
"4 Love is patient, love is kind and is not jealous; love does not brag and is not arrogant,
5 does not act unbecomingly; it does not seek its own, is not provoked, does not take into account a wrong suffered,
6 does not rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth;
7 [a]bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.
8 Love never fails; but if there are gifts of prophecy, they will be done away; if there are tongues, they will cease; if there is knowledge, it will be done away."

Better to Judge than to be Deceived

The same people who say "don't judge" often judge that something is right and good. If we are not to judge at all then we shouldn't judge something as good or right either. This kind of thinking is illogical if not insanity.

God told us to expose evil, we can only do that if we use the principles of God to discern good from bad and right from wrong.

Everyone makes judgments every day. The very people who say don't judge, judge those who do have analytical thinking, as judging.

If we don't judge, we lack discernment and are vulnerable to every scam that comes to us. Do we receive a half eaten candy bar from a stranger on the street? NO, because we are judging that something could be wrong with it, that the person might have a disease that we don't know about. The act of offering a half eaten candy bar is strange, so our judgment tells us there might be danger, we refuse the offer to protect ourselves.

One cannot go through life without making judgments, often life saving ones. It is only a fool who believes everything they hear and see without analyzing it to make sure of the information that comes to them.

A detective would be a fool if he merely looked superficially at a matter and didn't dig deeper. He would be wrong more times than right if he did not investigate and make judgments.

God told us in 2 Timothy 3:5 to "get away from such people." What people? People who act in certain ways as described in the previous verses. A judgment has to be made whether or not someone is acting in these ways to know heed the warning.

2 Timothy 3:1-5
"3 But realize this, that in the last days difficult times will come.
2 For men will be lovers of self, lovers of money, boastful, arrogant, revilers, disobedient to parents, ungrateful, unholy,
3 unloving, irreconcilable, malicious gossips, without self-control, brutal, haters of good,
4 treacherous, reckless, conceited, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God,
5 holding to a form of [b]godliness, although they have denied its power; Avoid such men as these."

John 7:24 "24 Stop judging by outward appearances, and start judging justly.”"

Malachi 3:18: "Then shall ye return, and discern between the righteous and the wicked, between him that serveth God and him that serveth him not."

When the culture as a whole is raised in the "don't judge" mentality, they are much more likely predisposed to accepting sin. The best way to make someone feel guilty about rejecting sin in ourselves and others is to shout "don't judge" every time someone attempts to tell the truth.

It is common for disobedient and rebellious hearts to point an accusing finger at the truth teller, to intimidate them into silence. Unruly people feel better when they are not faced with having to answer for their sin.

They do not shout "don't judge" to protect the one we are assessing, they are shouting "don't judge" because they don't want to be accountable to anyone themselves.

Our culture as a whole is hyper-sensitive to any form of correction or evaluation. They are weak in their souls because they are full of unrepentant sin.

Everyone needs correction from time to time, we are imperfect and have blind spots. Those who love the Lord with all their heart, do not rage when told they might be wrong, but rather they will go to prayer to see if it is true, readily admitting their error if God confirms it.

James 4:10
"Humble yourselves in the presence of the Lord, and He will exalt you."

Micah 6:8
"He has told you, O man, what is good; And what does the LORD require of you But to do justice, to love kindness, And to walk humbly with your God?"

Colossians 3:12
"So, as those who have been chosen of God, holy and beloved, put on a heart of compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience;"

Proverbs 16:19
"It is better to be humble in spirit with the lowly Than to divide the spoil with the proud."

Romans 12:3
"For through the grace given to me I say to everyone among you not to think more highly of himself than he ought to think; but to think so as to have sound judgment, as God has allotted to each a measure of faith."

No One Said It Did They?

Concerning the vice presidential debate tonight:

I didn't hear anyone say we should turn from our sins to God.

Of course if any politician did that it would be the death knell of their campaign, which shows the mentality of the people as a whole.

A godly leader will not save a nation that has chosen to reject God in order to keep their freedom to sin against Him.

Where is the Discernment in this Election

Where is the Discernment among Believers!!!

I have been given a measure of discernment about people, through their verbiage, their mannerisms and lifestyles, that show what kind of person they are. When someone is basing their opinion of someone merely on their words, they are desperately lacking in discernment. I have been around these kind of people all my life in one form or another which led me to a study of narcissism.

One thing is for sure, they all act the same way, use the same tactics and are absolutely convincing. But they are not what they project to others. Only those who are around them in their personal lives or in business with them, know the real them. Also those who are favorites of these narcissists will only see what the narc wants them to see. In this case Trump needs votes, so he shows only the side he thinks will influence people to vote for him.

I am quite confident that he is not the squishy sweetie pie to his targets, all those who will not do his bidding. The targets of narcissists are always the ones battered by these types, they have no one's welfare in mind, no matter what they say, they are full of themselves and vying for power. It is a given that Trump has been in competition all his life for power and money. No one becomes a billionaire without rolling over others and being continually focused on self aggrandizement.

No one can know a person in the public by their words or even their calculated actions in public that are far different from their private real self.

We have many clues with Trump about his character, so many that if we stop looking at his words alone and his false public image, we can see what he is.

It has been my experience that when someone likes a person and has only been looking at the superficial facade they have projected in public, they will not listen when they are warned about the deeper clues.

I could list pages about Trump that are character flaws revealing the real him, but those who want to like him will argue against every one of them even though they have never met him, seen him in private or had personal dealings with him. It is impossible to convince someone of something they don't want to see.

There are also reasons the general populous in our country love Trump, they love that "Rambo" mentality that they have been indoctrinated with all their lives. He is popular among the Millennials, because he is rich, self willed and bombastic, they love that rebel kind of brashness, they are not looking at all at character issues, only power plays.

I have not heard one person say how much they appreciate his love for God or his principles lifestyle. He has no principled lifestyle, lies come as easily as breathing while his objected all the time every minute is to "WIN." That's how he became so very wealthy. He even said "I hate to lose."

So much more could be said here but suffice it to say that we have no choice in terms of a president this time around and I believe God has made it clear we are under judgment, there will no longer be any good leaders and the nations is in dire straights in terms of righteousness, little exists anywhere, including the churches. We are a nation going under for the last time, only this time we will not come back up.

Do we accept God's judgment, repent of our pride and arrogance, or do we kick against the goad, rejecting the warnings and repeating the same old sins that caused our demise?

Instead of fighting me on this matter, just go to prayer and see if it is true. You don't have to believe me, but you must believe God. The Bible is replete with warnings about what happens to a nation who has rejected God, a nation who has placed their trust in leaders for their own personal comfort and wealth.

Believers should not be looking to save a nation, but rather to bring truth of the Gospel to people, to repent and carry on to serve God no matter where God takes the nation. Without discipline this nation will not repent and even with it, most will not.

Accepting God's will is easier when we think we will get what we want. It is nearly impossible for people to accept God's will when it means a spanking of ruin upon the country for our sins.

Don't argue with me, read the warning and go to prayer. Arguing with me will only get the comment deleted. I do not take this warning lightly, it is not a matter of mutual discussion, IT IS A WARNING!

Next Year the Trumpet

Amen! I am no longer looking for the signs because they are too many, I am now listening for the sound of the trumpet!

Every Jew used to say, in their hope of their own land, "next year in Jerusalem", now I say "next year the trumpet."

Stand Strong in the Lord

To the Born Again Family

Do not be blown away by all that we see today, sometimes it can be overwhelming, but God knows all about it, it is not directed at us but at God. He can handle it and we can too through His Holy Spirit.

Pro 30:11 There is a generation that curseth their father, and doth not bless their mother. Pro 30:12 There is a generation that are pure in their own eyes, and yet is not washed from their filthiness. Pro 30:13 There is a generation, O how lofty are their eyes! and their eyelids are lifted up.

2 Timothy 3:1-5 "3 But realize this, that in the last days difficult times will come. 2 For men will be lovers of self, lovers of money, boastful, arrogant, revilers, disobedient to parents, ungrateful, unholy, 3 unloving, irreconcilable, malicious gossips, without self-control, brutal, [a]haters of good, 4 treacherous, reckless, conceited, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God, 5 holding to a form of [b]godliness, although they have denied its power; Avoid such men as these."