Pentecostals Who Follow False Preachers

One can always tell a Pentecosal who is entrenched in the false teachers.

They always justify divorce and remarriage.

They defend women being pastors leading over men.

They depend more on what they can see than on truth, in other words if it works it must be right.

Their emotions rule over reason and scripture and they never accept the truth when it is presented. They fight, they argue and never say they will go to the Lord to pray about it.

When their assertion of their emotions and circumstances do not convince us they move to character assassination. They call us names and claim we do not know the Lord.

This is the very essence of narcissism, to claim they are special, to resist any correction or the use of scripture as well as rejecting the one who challenged them to think more deeply scripturally.

Since there are more people claiming to be Christian who do these things it is likely that most "Christians" today are not born again. They come for God's perks, His blessings, and their specialness for claiming to be Christian, but they do not love the Lord, that is clear.

Those who love the Lord receive a challenge with joy, desiring to discuss in humility while going to prayer and Bible study for their truth.

If we have already prayed through and studied God's word to find our answer we do not have to do that again when God has shown us, in this case, we can say God has already shown me that there is no need for further debate.

Those who follow false brethren often cannot leave a conversation, if one could call it that, without disparaging the character of their target. This is their way of helping to maintain their stance of superiority without ever having to self-reflect.

Truth is not important to these types of people, they merely want to be superior and dominate others, truth is not important to them. God said to avoid them entirely.

2 Timothy 3:1-5 This is a description of the end times apostate church.

Difficult Times Will Come

1 But realize this, that in the last days difficult times will come.

2 For people will be lovers of self, lovers of money, boastful, arrogant, slanderers, disobedient to parents, ungrateful, unholy,

3 unloving, irreconcilable, malicious gossips, without self-control, brutal, haters of good,

4 treacherous, reckless, conceited, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God,

5 holding to a form of godliness although they have denied its power; avoid such people as these."

Verse 5 tells us these people want to seem spiritual but are liars full of arrogance and anger. He tells us to avoid such people.

Women's Role Misunderstood by Most

God was very clear that the role of the woman is different from the role of men at home and in the congregation. Women are not to take the role of "pastor", a gift and calling of men.

The women are allowed to share under certain conditions as told in 1 Corinthians 11. Those who attempt to silence the women completely are not following the word of God but rather their own traditions of men. They take one sentence about women remaining silent to mean she may never speak ever, even to men outside the gathering. This is an abuse of scripture as well as the offense of removing scripture out of its context to make it say what they wish to believe.

In the passage, women are to remain silent the woman is being told not to ask her husband disruptively in the gathering questions, she is to wait with those questions and ask her husband at home.

When someone uses the scripture disrespectfully and as a tool to dominate others they are not being honest. Every scripture must remain in the context of the entire Bible to be properly understood.

2 Timothy 2:14-16 "14 Remind the believers of these things, charging them before God to avoid quarreling over words, which succeeds only in leading the listeners to ruin. 15 Make every effort to present yourself approved to God, an unashamed workman who accurately handles the word of truth. 16 But avoid irreverent, empty chatter, which will only lead to more ungodliness,…"

When we love the Word and desire to have wisdom we will not merely believe what others teach but pray and read for ourselves to see if what is being taught is supported by the word and through the instruction of the Holy Spirit.

Boundaries with a Narcissist

We Must Count the Cost, it does not get Easier!

Seek the Holy Spirit the Translations Have Problems

Someone asked me if I thought it was alright for women to lead in the church gathering. Here was my answer:

Women are allowed to share their faith with one another and even men, but they are not allowed to lead men in a church gathering. There is a difference between leading and sharing. In 1 Corinthians 11 God tells us that women can pray and prophesy, meaning expound on the word in the gathering as long as her head is covered. She is clearly sharing her faith in the gathering but she is not leading it.

1 Corinthians 11 and 1 Timothy 2 answer the question of women in leadership in the Church.

The passage that says a woman is not to speak has been mistranslated. The meaning is that she should not disrupt the preaching to ask her husband question, but should wait until she gets home to ask him.

1 Corinthians 14:44 "33b As in all the churches of the saints, 34 the women should keep silent in the churches. "

If the women were not to speak at all in the church then 1 Corinthians 11 would contradict the verses in 1 Timothy 2. They are not contradictory because one is dealing with disruption and the other is dealing with a woman who is hearing from the Lord and sharing what she hears. They are two different things entirely.

Our English translations were often misunderstood by those who were not Jewish. Without Jewish background and a good understanding of Heberew and Greek a modern 16th century spin was placed on the interpretations.

For example, the word "Easter" is in the KJV of the Bible but it does not belong there. The word they have translated as "Easter" should have been translated "Passover." Because of the traditions of the time of the translating was an acceptance of the pagan holiday, the word Easter was used but it was incorrect.

There are many other things just like this in which the English translation sent a wrong message causing traditions that God never gave.

The Whittlin of the Church

The Narcissists Accusations

Narcissists practice what they accuse others of doing. The very people who shout "racism" the loudest are those who practice it more than those they accuse.

1 John 4:20

"If anyone says, “I love God,” and hates his brother, he is a liar; for he who does not love his brother whom he has seen cannot love God whom he has not seen."

Matthew 7:5

"You hypocrite, first take the log out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to take the speck out of your brother's eye."

Romans 2:3

"Do you suppose, O man—you who judge those who practice such things and yet do them yourself—that you will escape the judgment of God?"

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