Young men and young women, if you are thinking of getting married with the idea that you will have your fun together after marriage first before you have children within your marriage then you are too immature for marriage.
Marriage if for the two coming together to become one and to raise a family together.
It is a lie from the devil that our enjoyment is over when we have children. The liberals have fostered this in the minds of people making them believe having children is a burden and without pleasure.
Our enjoyment comes from many things, our jobs, our creative skills, and yes, our children. We had good times with our children we had no need for the fancy grandiose adventures that so many people promote today.
If your grandiose fun is what makes you feel fulfilled then you are looking for things to boast about. Temporary thrills are like an addiction, they can only be enjoyed over the years if you are constantly boasting about them.
My husband and I did not have much money when we got married, we could not afford fancy fun as so many do today, but we were blessed with the enjoyment of the small things. We were excited the first time we found out I was going to have a baby. The preparation for the child was great fun.
All that "fun" couples think they are missing by having a family could still be enjoyed with a child along. The world has fostered selfishness teaching people to make life all about them first so they would not have to share with another little human being.
This is the lie that has been around about 50 years, I didn't understand it when I was young and newly married and I do not understand it now.
Psalm 127:3
"3 Behold, children are a gift of the Lord,
The fruit of the womb is a reward."
Delaying parenting in marriage only produces more selfishness! If you do not want to have children then don't get married until you are ready to be mature, sharing your life with another person as well as the beauty of a child that comes from that union.
Just saying!
No comments:
Post a Comment