How to Stop Thinking About Someone: When You Loved Someone But It's Time...

Excellent message again! I have been praying for many years, probably 40 of them, for my children and my extended narcissistic family. They do not change and they seem to be getting worse. Then one day God said to me in my heart, "all the prayers you uttered over the past 40 years still are on record, no need to keep praying, I know your desire for them and what is best for them. " This freed me from uttering prayers so often, practically begging God. I realized it might be a lack of faith to keep praying since perhaps I don't know if He heard me or if He knows what He needs to do. Such arrogance on my part to think I should keep telling God what to do. Now I pray that God will cause me to do and be the right things when I have to be around these people. If I don't heave to be around them I stay away as much as possible.