The narcissist wants you to be demeaned through covert ignoring. They"invite you to the party so you can see them enjoying others and ignoring you."
The narcissist will call and chastise you if you do not show up at the party they invited you to because you were not there to be ignored, one of their favorite tactics.
Ignoring is another form of gaslighting, in other words, they are attempting to make you feel like you did something wrong to them so that you ruminate over and over again about something being wrong.
This is laughable if it were not so tragic how often these tactics destroy relationships. There is no honesty, kindness or curiosity about you only manipulation and receipt continually.
Proverbs 22:24-25 " 24Do not make friends with an angry man, and do not associate with a hot-tempered man, 25or you may learn his ways and entangle yourself in a snare.…"
There is nothing to be gained in your spiritual walk to keep company with those whose only desire is to destroy you. There is nothing to be gained by keeping company with those who do not love Christ, are not born again and have no interest in Spiritual matters.
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