Narcissists deliberately poke at us to cause frustration and anger to be able to blame us for their wrong attitudes. If they can get us to blow up they can say; "see how you are, you are no different from me." They are liars to the core. Narcissists hate kindness and those who are loving people because it shines the light on their darkness.
When the narcissist cannot control our feelings and successfully manipulate us they will attempt to turn others against us.
Remember Judas betrayed Christ without a cause, merely for money. Many will betray us to have power over us while enlisting others to do the same.
If a narcissist cannot control us they will work at getting others to emotionally abuse us, a form of control by proxy.
When we draw back from the narcissists and get a long refreshing breath of absence from them we begin to see their tactics more clearly and even observe the humor in the childishness caused by the influence of the devil.
Narcissists love control but what they do not realize is that they are not in control of themselves but the devil is, manipulating them to think things that are not true the same as he did in the Garden with Eve when he convinced her to distrust God, blaming God of things that were not true, turning Eve from God to disobey Him.
The devil is no different today in his manipulation of people to ruin relationships while accusing falsely those who are innocent.
1 Peter 5:8-10
"8 Be of sober spirit, be on the alert. Your adversary, the devil, prowls around like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour.
9 So resist him, firm in your faith, knowing that the same experiences of suffering are being accomplished by your brothers and sisters who are in the world.
10 After you have suffered for a little while, the God of all grace, who called you to His eternal glory in Christ, will Himself perfect, confirm, strengthen, and establish you."
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