Often those who are in narcissistic families, are at the mercy of the lies and triangulation of those who love to hate. They allow the devil to work on their minds to believe things that are not true and never has been true, but seem so vivid in the minds of those who have been convinced by the majority of the crowd.
Far too many people believe what they hear, after all it sounds so right, but in fact are assumptions based on ,little or no true information. Elevating se...lf is far more important to the narcissist than knowing and speaking truth.
Far too many people believe what they hear, after all it sounds so right, but in fact are assumptions based on ,little or no true information. Elevating se...lf is far more important to the narcissist than knowing and speaking truth.
Notice that the narcissist resists any form of genuine communication, choosing to believe the lies is far more elevating for them than discovering truth that would dispel all their erroneous assumptions of their target.
Fear of being alienated by the rest of the family, drives them to believe what they are told, isolating the target while building on their false beliefs with insignificant and meaningless events, making them seem like evidence of what has been triangulated.
These same people who love to hate their target, speak against "gossip", while indulging in it themselves, calling it gossip to speak truth openly. One way to stop a believer from telling the truth is to proclaim everything that is "negative" as gossip, except when they are maligning their victim.
The narcissist doesn't want truth to be exposed, they live continually in a false self, appearance oriented realm, constantly fearful of being discovered for who they are, by anyone.
Fear of being alienated by the rest of the family, drives them to believe what they are told, isolating the target while building on their false beliefs with insignificant and meaningless events, making them seem like evidence of what has been triangulated.
These same people who love to hate their target, speak against "gossip", while indulging in it themselves, calling it gossip to speak truth openly. One way to stop a believer from telling the truth is to proclaim everything that is "negative" as gossip, except when they are maligning their victim.
The narcissist doesn't want truth to be exposed, they live continually in a false self, appearance oriented realm, constantly fearful of being discovered for who they are, by anyone.
http://chalpari.com/watch/flhK0wdHvus/the-slandering-narcissist.html
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