To Know God's Will, Read the Bible and Ask the Holy Spirit

Whenever man decides he knows better than God how things must be done you can be sure it is going to go bad. Read the Bible, ask the Holy Spirit and do what He leads according to His will.

And, the direction of the Holy Spirit will never violate His Own scripture. If the scripture does not support a teaching or an action then we must reject that teaching or action and even speak against it.

 
James 1:14-15
"But each person is tempted when he is lured and enticed by his own desire. Then desire when it has conceived gives birth to sin, and sin when it is fully grown brings forth death."

Luke 6:46
“Why do you call me ‘Lord, Lord,’ and not do what I tell you?"