Narcissists will interpret us the way they wish to see us not the way we are in reality, they are jealous and competitive!
This is why they feel so free to judge people about minor things or even judge people about big things that never happened by guessing what is going on without proof.
They have no shame when it comes to guesses about others. This is the reason they are so guarded in their own lives because they are fearful that someone will hear their own stories and do the same thing to them.
When a narcissist guesses what they think may have happened to someone or judge someone's attitude without a detailed description of words and deeds we know they are doing it again.....gossiping without cause.
The best thing to do is to avoid those who gossip, refrain from believing or commenting on anything they say, and assume you don't have the entire story.
Disagreements and jealousy is are big factors in the reasons narcissists malign others. They cannot tolerate that someone else thinks differently or that someone else is happy and content, they must do something to ruin their joy even if it is through gossip to turn others against them.
2 Timothy 3 clearly describes the heart of the narcissist and commands us in verse five to avoid them.
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