Friends with God or with Satan

When someone wants to be your friend but they negate, through their actions and disrespect, everything you say and do, they do not want you for a friend; they want access to you so they can continue the disrespect.

 
Narcissists hate our love, our kindness, our joy and peace. They cannot stand that we have what they lack. Satan is like this and is the father of the narcissist. He manipulates them to believe we are causing trouble when they are the ones who do it.

 
The devil is the accuser of the brethren; he leads unsaved people to believe things about believers that are not true and then entices the unbeliever to be his own accuser through those accusations.

 
Guilt and misery are in the heart of narcissists; they have no peace or joy but pretend they do through subtle manipulation and self-exalting words.
The devil is attacking believers every day, hoping they will give up on God or become like their accusers.

 
God said this about that: James 4:6-8 "6 But He gives us more grace. This is why it says: “God opposes the proud, but gives grace to the humble.” 7 Submit yourselves, then, to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you. 8 Draw near to God, and He will draw near to you. Cleanse your hands, you sinners, and purify your hearts, you double-minded."

The devil comes to us through those who have rejected Christ to torment believers. Because we have Christ, these minions cannot affect our walk with God unless we make them more important than Christ.